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 Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 6:08 am
All my life I've had my big brother for suport and now he's gone.
He's off to college, a really good college, and I should be proud but I really want him back. I'm always the person my mom yells at if something goes wrong ( most of the time it's not my fault) and I don't have the reasurance of my brother to not fight back and ignore her anymore. So, my mom and I get into fights. Now she compares me to him and calls him the better child. I really don't know how to get through to her and gain my independence or follow in my brother's footsteps and become the child she's always wanted me to be..
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Posted: Mon Apr 06, 2009 3:01 pm
what do you do when you know your dad does not want you. your sister hates you.
Adn your mom thinks you can do more but you know you cant and she forces you to do somthing you don't beleive in.
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Posted: Tue Sep 29, 2009 5:01 pm
Fight her tooth and nail.
I never had that back up, I scream at my mom at the top of her lungs in her face sometimes because I know she's having an episode about something that isn't what she's yelling at me about.
It's gotten to the point where sometimes I make her cry and she apologizes, sometimes she tells me to go to my room all hissy like an apologizes the next day.
Just use your logic to prove to her that your viewpoint is correct; but check yourself before you open your mouth.
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Posted: Wed Oct 14, 2009 6:28 pm
I don't know how yellling would help. Since I already know that your not the talk about it your mother kinda type. I'd guess you should try and make something or hold something that reminds you of your brother. Try to have some feeling that he may be with you. What your mother is doing is bad parenting and to be honest, is stupid. Either she is going though something or her hormones are makeing her that way.
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