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Dominic_Deegan

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 11:56 am


Both titles sounded good so I thought why not and put them both up, lol.

Well, after taking some peoples advice from here and from real life friends, I backed off from that guy from Scotland to see what's really up. As I suspected, yet hated to actually see him do, he would be online for hours for days at a time, but not one word to me. Only twice in a 2-week period did he actually talk to me. Those convos were riddled with "rbrs" and "aways". The excuses ranged from his parents need the comp (it is thiers) to filling out online resumes to helping other friends in need. Seems like he can make time for everyone and everything else except for me . . .

Last night I had enough. I wrote him a lenghty, yet nice toned e-mail about what I have and haven't seen and felt from him as well as myself. I told him I give up on trying for a relationship with him but of course wouldn't mind being a chat buddy or a friend. He had ample amounts of time and chances to even just keep in contact with me and he couldn't do that on his own. That makes me feel like he doesn't care. At this point, I really don't care why he is showing no more intrest in me. I just wish he would have been a gentleMAN about it and had the common courtesy to treat me with enough respect to atleast tell me why.

On a side note: As I am writing this, my dad's movers have finished packing the house, expect for the comp room that is, lol! I have to go now. Please refer to my post in the "I'm Gone" thread and in my jounral for more info.

Anyways, back on subject. I guess I'm not really asking for advice on what to do now or validation for if what I did was right. I just need a hug! crying
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:52 pm


*big hug* It's totally for the best.

Chalda


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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:03 pm


*big hugs!* Good for you, I'm glad you actually went through with that. biggrin
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 1:14 pm


*joins the hug-fest* It must have taken a lot for you to do that, and I think it was a very good accomplishment that shows how much he really cares about you.

You're better off without him.

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PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:50 pm


*thumbs up*
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 7:59 pm


Soleq
*thumbs up*

"*hug*", "*hug*", "*hug*", ... "*thumbs up*"

Why not "*hug*" like everyone else? xd

*hugs Dominic_Deegan* xd

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