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Fuzzy Necromancer

PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 9:30 pm


http://www.news-medical.net/?id=13794

Quote:
Women be warned, men can be bad for you!

According to a UK obesity expert when women move in with their man they very often put on weight as a result.

Men says Haslam are really very bad for women.

He says eating with a partner becomes a social event, where women often eat larger portions and indulge in richer foods and wines and more extravagant food.

When those factors are combined with taking the contraceptive pill or having babies, a woman's waistline can severely suffer, says Haslam.

Dr Haslam says research shows women tend to gain weight once they cohabit and begin to share meals with men who intrinsically have higher energy needs and therefore appetites.

The weekly shopping list may change from the basic fruit and veg to include indulgent treats, and couples may go out to restaurants for meals more often.

Women also may do less exercise when they are in a relationship, skipping a trip to the gym to spend quality time with their partner.

Apparently the contraceptive they chose to use can also have an impact.

The contraceptive pill, which is taken by 3.5 million British women, has been associated with a slight weight gain among some users, on average 4lb in the first three months.

Repeated pregnancies can also lead to weight gain.

Changes in society's attitude also means women may be less physically active than their great-grandmothers were, doing less housework thanks to technology, and getting partners to share the load or paying others to do it for them.

In the past studies have shown that married couples gain weight while those who divorce lose weight.

Dr Haslam does fortunately stress that it is important not to generalise and that being in a relationship has numerous positive influences and gains too.

He says however it is important for individuals to look at their own lifestyles and make healthy changes if they need to, as obesity has been shown to decrease life expectancy by seven years at the age of 40.

The study is published in The Lancet medical journal.

http://www.thelancet.com



Thoughts? Aside from the obvious "o__0" and "WTF?!"?
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 6:05 am


when I first got married my husband and I went out to eat all the time and I put on some weight. It wasn't till the wallet could no longer take it that we had to stop, sweatdrop lol. I personally just like eating. Eating with my husband just became an added bonues mrgreen

Kawaii_Senpai


Guyrealname

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 6:28 am


His argument is sound and he backs it up pretty well. Its not really that far out there. its probably same for the men too but not as severe. I'm sure a lot of women start to gain weight when they are in a very steady adult relationship. but then again I'm pretty sure men do. its not really that crazy of an argument....
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 9:43 am


Eh...I wouldn't say men are to blame. But in my opinion, as a woman, it might have some volidity to it. I mean...a guy who you are with likes you for who you are. You don't feel the obsessive need to loose weight and constantly watch what you eat after a while. My bf infact feels bad when he eats more than me as if I didn't eat enough because of him. sweatdrop So...yeah...I kinda can see what that guy is saying. xp

Jinnari Kisaragi
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EvilJelly

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:08 pm


Quote:
Dr Haslam does fortunately stress that it is important not to generalise and that being in a relationship has numerous positive influences and gains too.

Including weight? xd

Seriously though, he actually does a very good argument, pointing out several beliveable scenarios for example, but I guess the "Men are bad for you" thing is a bit much, but you have to find ways to get attention nowadays... rolleyes
Of course there always will be a chance that women will gain weight due to having quailty time with thier man, and all of this can work vise-versa as well, but as long as you are healthy and happy with your relationship... it really doesn't matter, does it?
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:15 pm


Well also if you feel comfortable around someone your not paying attention to weight. Most women (NOT ALL) try to watch the figure and what not when they are in "just dating". I guess they figure the got the man when they move in with them so they don't have to stress as much?

Does that make sence?

Kawaii_Senpai


MangaJoe

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 12:17 pm


I'm glad I'd end up being responsible for something Ic an approve of.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 2:54 pm


Okay, granted that what he says makes alot of sense and he backed up his info well... scream What the hell are we suppose to do? Just avoid all contact with the opposite sex? News flash! It's not going to happen like that! Be realistic! scream

I swear. Some people will go to any lengths to make themselves look stupid. stare

MangaJoe
I'm glad I'd end up being responsible for something I can approve of.


That's another thing to think about, Joe. What about all the Feedee/Feeder relationships out there? People that enjoy this sort of thing are (once again) not being considered.

Diego the Incubus


serenaplacid

PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:40 pm


Yeah, I would fully believe this article - I've seen it happen to a lot of couples. Both men and women can tend to gain weight once married (my sister and brother-in-law both did), but I don't see it as a big problem (no pun intended). So what? People gain weight after getting married. I think it's slightly silly to blame weight gain on your spouse (unless they're like MangaJoe and a few others would would happily take the blame 3nodding ). It amuses me that they did this study on women and blame the weight gain on the men; yet they didn't seem to say anything about men gaining weight after marriage.
PostPosted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 8:28 pm


I don't have an issue with the argument as much as its point and conclusion.

Fuzzy Necromancer


serenaplacid

PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 3:17 pm


Yeah, it did make me laugh that they concluded that this was all men's fault. I'm sorry. If the woman gains weight, it is ultimately up to the woman. It's not like men are threatening to leave women unless they gain weight.
PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 3:35 pm


Yes. It can only offer temptations. When it comes to weight gain I take a strongly existentialist perspective.

Fuzzy Necromancer


serenaplacid

PostPosted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 4:14 pm


Same here. I'm not about to "blame" anyone else for who I am and how I came to be this way. It's all me, baby. biggrin Sure people have contributed to my sense of self-value, worth, and esteem, but it's ultimately my decision as to who I listen to and what I do with my body.
PostPosted: Sat Oct 29, 2005 9:08 am


I don't know..I bet some people that is true, but for me I don't think so. When I go out with my friends and they have there boyfriends with them I don't eat at all. Like when they get ice cream I don't eat any or if we go out to eat I get like the less thing. Why is that? Am I scared to eat infront of people?

Shampoo_0405


Kinsai-chan_Banned

PostPosted: Sat Oct 29, 2005 9:18 am


weird o__o
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