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SweetJenny

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 2:42 pm


I feel so tired and i hurt My boyfriend brok up with me this morning
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 2:53 pm


I'm sorry, hon.

But I have to be blunt with you. The best thing we can do is get over it and be happy.

How long were you guys dating for?

thisshitisoldandgottago


Thomas Neo Anderson

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 3:11 pm


There aren't many details, but I mostly agree with Wendy. You probably learned a lot from the relationship, and obviously he was not happy. It still wasn't right for him to not try and make it work. I hope you can start feeling better soon.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 3:28 pm


Over 6 months and We said "i love you " alot and i ment it!

SweetJenny


Chalda

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 3:30 pm


I know it really really hurts and it will take awhile to stop hurting but the old saying 'time heals all wounds' is mostly true. You will never forget him and he will always be special but some day you will meet the right guy and it will be so much better.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 3:31 pm


He called me beautiful and sexy and He made me feel like that and I feel hurt and used

SweetJenny


Chalda

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 3:36 pm


Well honey I'm sure he still thinks you are all of those things. But feelings change some times and for all sorts of different reasons.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 5:31 pm


I think he just didn't want to deal with me anymore

SweetJenny


Soleq
Captain

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 5:41 pm


For whatever the reasons, take this as a learning experience. Learn from this relationship, why it failed, and grow from what you find. This in turn will help your future relationships.
PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 5:47 pm


Think of it as a learning experience. Six months is quite awhile, I agree, and it'll take some time to get over everything.

But if it was really, truly meant to be, would it have turned out this way? Obviously not, right?

You can't forget, you can't bury the past, but you CAN put it behind you and not let it bother you. Stay away from the romantic-y music and movies... no need to put salt on open wounds. Don't listen to emo music. xD God, no.

Chocolate helps, and tea. Indulge yourself in your favorite treats, have a sleep over with your friends, watch Comedy Central... and you'll be better in no time.

Feel better. *hugs* mrgreen

thisshitisoldandgottago


The Eighth House

PostPosted: Mon Oct 24, 2005 6:34 pm


Something must have been wrong for it to end. You will have other relationships in your future, and you'll get past this one. Instead of feeling hurt or angry, think of it as a learning experience (basically what the others are saying...). Talking to friends about it might help.

There's not much I can say about that.

Hope things get better.
PostPosted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 5:06 am


I'm doing great today! I had to get over the shock and I'm not even crying! Ha ! So yeah I know it will take time and I'm going to ask some friends over this week and weekend!

SweetJenny


vampy dave

PostPosted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 9:04 pm


Guys are weird sometimes. Sorry to hear about it, but glad to hear you're feeling better. All I can say is just go with the flow. Maybe he wasn't the one for you and someone better will come along. As they say, there are always more fish in the sea. Have fun with your friends! smile
PostPosted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 9:24 pm


Wendy_Chan


Chocolate helps, and tea. Indulge yourself in your favorite treats,


Bad idea. If you do this you'll get fat, and therefore ugly. In that kind of state it'll be impossible to find another man.

Also, I'd like to note that in most cases the chances of failure in a relationship are extremely high, which often leads to heart ache, depression, and everything else. Now that you have a better sense of the odds, perhaps you'll be more cautious next time.

Captain_Sipid_Peabody


SweetJenny

PostPosted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 5:10 am


I breakout if i eat too much sugar! sweatdrop But other than that I liek Tea! hERBAL AND Ice
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