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Okay I know we are all busy mommies and daddies here but im lost. I was just woken up on and off since three to a silly baby... And then at five something she woke up screaming and every time i tired to lay her down to make her relax and go back to sleep she would scream.. And here is the thing she is slowly getting on the regular milk via milk formula mix but im starting to think she is lactose and tolerent..

Symptoms
A little gassier
bloated slighlty

Im thinking i may stop and wait till the doctor because that means she would have to get soy milk instead..
Ugh What am I gonna do?

By "regular milk" do you mean breast milk or cow milk? Breast milk is best and is generally recommended for at least the first six months, but the longer you can do it, the better.

Cow's milk can cause some problems for human babies since it wasn't made for them; it was made for cow babies, which have different nutritional needs. Many babies are allergic to a protein in cow's milk. They often outgrow the allergy by the time they're two or three years old, but that could be the cause of the issues you're seeing now. Cow's milk can also cause iron anemia in babies.

Formula isn't any better. Babies raised on a formula diet are far more prone to health problems than breastfed babies are. Breast milk contains antibodies; formula does not. Those antibodies help your baby fight off infections and other problems. Babies raised on formula are far more likely to develop pneumonia, MS, diabetes, weight problems, leukemia, heart disease, and many other issues.

Talking to a doctor about it sounds like a good idea.

Here's a collection of articles on the subject if you're interested in reading more:
http://www.vegsource.com/talk/parenting/breastfeed.htm

i personally dont understand the big deal in some states about formula and breast feeing. my daughters 2 1/2 and i never breast fed her, has been sick just once with a fever. and her weight is perfect. not over or under done. so its really up to the parents to decide that. the most you give her when you breast feed is your immune system. but as she/he gets older, they develop there own. theres nothing wrong with formula feeding or breast feeding. its an option they give cause there both healthy for your child. my child now drinks regular milk. that lactose and tolerant issue i would definaltey go to your pediatrician for it. you dont want your child to be harmed

Well I dont really care about the debate
Is it better for her yes!
Did I wanna do it yes and now
Did i really wanna risk after a c-section to pump morpheine and percoet down her throat because I was taking them to control my pain that drove me insane.. No
Do i regret it yes and now but i didnt even have any milk come out till like a week later so in a way she would of lost weight anyway..

so i dont regret my choice I was well informed and did my research but I didnt wanna pump her with drugs I was taking more then she had from when I had to have the surgery.

ANY WAY
The doctor thought the vomit and lactose problem weird and we decided milk has way to much lactose in it for her little system to process so we got her on Lactaid which is a lactose free milk. I look at it and they have it in whole milk so she will be getting as much of the fat as possible just a little less.. and after one day so far so good.

Sorry people saying stuff makes me feel bad!
But yeah so far so good right now we are just fighting a fever from the shots she got yesterday
And the milk is still doing good maybe by the begining of next month biggrin she will be a big girl!