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 Posted: Sun Mar 01, 2009 7:35 pm
Yeah i have had 2 since July of last year and my last was last month and i was 9 weeks and 3 days along! It still hurts me and my fiance we rly want this and it seems that it wont happen and we rly want to try again as soon as i get the okay from the doctor! Im just looking for some support!
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Posted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 9:06 am
It's hard when we lose a pregnancy no matter how far along we are. We get our hopes up and the loss crushes us. My husband and I lost 4 and they are never easy. We always lose ours around 8-9 weeks and I find that to be the hardest time. You've already had 2 months to dream and wonder, and then nothing. Not only is it painful physically, but you need plenty of time to heal emotionally. I feel your pain and I know it's hard. I hope you get your first/second soon. We want another but we've had no luck the past 3 months of trying.
Our first baby was kinda a surprise. We had gone on vacation and I had felt queesy before, but fine during. Just hazy. When we got home we showered up and went to dinner at Red Lobster to celebrate the end of our first vacation together, alone...kinda romantic. On the way home I stopped at our local Walgreens and got one of those strips that tells you digitally Pregnant or Not Pregnant, and took it as soon as we got home. It was Pregnant! OMG! I couldn't believe it! We had lost our last baby a year and a half before this one and so I never contemplated that we'd carry this one to term. We both held each other feeling like we had a fragile gift and hoped we'd make it throught this time or we'd quit for good. That first visit to the Dr. was hard. I never expected anything on the sonogram, as none of our babies had a heart beat. This one did. And a week later, still a heart beat, and a week later a stronger heart beat and that was when we cried and cried some more.
Like I said, it kills a part of you to lose a baby, no matter how far along, but when you have one that sticks you feel like you won the lottery. My little Grace just turned 1 this month, and I thank God every day for her. She's the glue that has helped to mend our hearts.
Good luck, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you. heart
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Posted: Sun Mar 29, 2009 2:26 pm
Yvette Aimee It's hard when we lose a pregnancy no matter how far along we are. We get our hopes up and the loss crushes us. My husband and I lost 4 and they are never easy. We always lose ours around 8-9 weeks and I find that to be the hardest time. You've already had 2 months to dream and wonder, and then nothing. Not only is it painful physically, but you need plenty of time to heal emotionally. I feel your pain and I know it's hard. I hope you get your first/second soon. We want another but we've had no luck the past 3 months of trying. Our first baby was kinda a surprise. We had gone on vacation and I had felt queesy before, but fine during. Just hazy. When we got home we showered up and went to dinner at Red Lobster to celebrate the end of our first vacation together, alone...kinda romantic. On the way home I stopped at our local Walgreens and got one of those strips that tells you digitally Pregnant or Not Pregnant, and took it as soon as we got home. It was Pregnant! OMG! I couldn't believe it! We had lost our last baby a year and a half before this one and so I never contemplated that we'd carry this one to term. We both held each other feeling like we had a fragile gift and hoped we'd make it throught this time or we'd quit for good. That first visit to the Dr. was hard. I never expected anything on the sonogram, as none of our babies had a heart beat. This one did. And a week later, still a heart beat, and a week later a stronger heart beat and that was when we cried and cried some more. Like I said, it kills a part of you to lose a baby, no matter how far along, but when you have one that sticks you feel like you won the lottery. My little Grace just turned 1 this month, and I thank God every day for her. She's the glue that has helped to mend our hearts. Good luck, and if you need someone to talk to I'm here for you. heart Thank you so much hun for ur support!
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Posted: Sat Feb 27, 2010 11:16 pm
Keep trying and keep going! It might sound like your chances are really tiny and you should stop, but keep going! I bet one day your going to get a beautiful baby. Just strive through.
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Posted: Thu Aug 19, 2010 9:48 am
my mommy lost her first child like a week before it was born. She had a lot of trouble before that too. but then she had me. She also had a filopian tub burst between me and my brothers.
Having a heard time having kids was realy hard on her. BUT it also made her the best mom in the word. making her have to work so hard to get me made me (and my little brothers) the most special thing.
Moral: Hang in there you will be amazing parents for it.
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