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 Posted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 5:50 pm
What would you do...
When the guy you like:
likes you too
does weed and crack at the same time, aka chronic
three days straight
yet just started smoking weed about a week ago
but is still coherent enough to talk to you.
I hate this,
it's like every guy I like smokes now or has been smoking.
And I'm only a Freshmen.
...if you weren't afraid?
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 1:35 am
I'd be careful about getting too close. I've known some drug users and they aren't always the best to get involved with. At least I can say this from friendship experiences. They were bad ones and I regret ever being around them. I never did anything bad myself...but the situations and environments I was surrounded with were bad ones. What that guy is doing to himself is harmful and can be dangerous. It concerns me that you say he's only started a week ago and seems to be in deep.
Most of the people that I've talked to while they were high didn't really remember much later on. They may be able to talk, but generally speaking their minds aren't fully there. Nor is much for common sense. Although I'm sure there are exceptions to this.
It doesn't surprise me that a lot of them are getting into smoking. High School is filled with a lot of peer pressure and pressure in general to fit in and do what seems to be the cool thing. For many, it's weed. In reality though, it's not cool at all.
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 7:22 pm
What would you do...
I think it's disgusting, same with drinking.
He actually came over today and hung out till six.
He asked me out and I said yes.
We've known each other since elementary,
I said I didn't like the smell of smokers and he asked me if I wanted him to quit because he will if I wanted it to stop.
He said he felt sick today and he's never doing that crap again. And his 20 year old brother gave it to him without telling him exactly what it was.
Doesn't amaze me since I now know his brother is a pretty hard druggie. Or maybe even junkie.
If I ask him to stop and he does, will that make everything better?
...if you weren't afraid?
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:08 pm
I should say so. If he's seriously willing to quit for you, then I'd say that's a clear sign on how much he wants to keep you in his life. Just be sure to support and encourage him A LOT to help him quit and stay quit from it. You can help him by showing him fun alternatives. I don't like to judge people and I don't want you to think I'm thinking he's a bad guy or anything, because I don't. I still hope you'll be careful though. I'd hate for you to be surrounded by the drug scene. It's not a good or safe place to be. I do have a lot of faith. I know that it is very possible for people to turn around and not necessarily everyone that does drugs are bad people. They have just made bad decisions.
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Posted: Thu Feb 26, 2009 8:42 pm
well if he likes you enough he should be able to either slow down some or stop...but yes it is disgusting >.< and to answer you question it might unless his addiction was really really bad that he would be in fits of rage or any of the others but yes if he cares enough for you then he'll be able to do it..and he shouldnt have gotten anything foregin from his older brother in the first place>.< but if he says that he'll never do that again hold that to him..cause it might as well be true
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 3:45 pm
What would you do...
I was shocked when he said that he'd quit for me in a straight face.
He hasn't had some drugs in a week. And he's only done drugs for about less than a week so it isn't hard from him.
He hates how it feels afterwards (with crack) so he won't do that again for sure.
I should ask him to stop. It would be the best for him, and it's not even for me.
I stay away from the drug scene, I just know people who are in it themselves. I don't like that stuff, it's gross and just dumb.
...if you weren't afraid?
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Posted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 3:50 pm
good for you karux3 glad to hear that he at least said that hed quit and that he hasnt done drugs in a week and yah even if its not for you itd be good for him cause it wouldnt cut his life short and suchx3 but yah in all intentions he should stop...its just not good for him..
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