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 Posted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 9:01 pm
I don't know what to do about this guy. He's in my circle of friends, and i've liked him almost all year. We talk like crazy all the time, and we have like 3 hour convos online too about the most random things lol. I was planning on asking him to turnabout, but the only problem is that he is my friends ex (who is still a little touchy but its been more than 3 months since they broke up and they only went out for 2 months) and then my other friend (who his ex hates) likes him a lot. When second semester started, our schedule changed and now we have no classes together. We still talk sometimes, and when we talk its perfectly normal, but in the hallways we always glance at each other as if the other person is afraid to talk to the other person, and in a way it seems like we both don't want the other one to know that we saw the other person looking or something. Its so weird I can't even explain it. The other reason why I don't know if he likes me or not, is because he has a lot of girl friends (but he doesn't really go out with them or anything) and I can't really tell if I'm one of them or not. Its so confusing cause sometimes I think he likes me but I don't know if he acts the way he does around me around all his girl friends.
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Posted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 11:42 pm
well, considering what you told us about in the previous thread you made about this boy (assuming it's the same guy) you're in a bit of a predicament. on one hand, you could tell him how you feel, and make your friends mad. on nthe othe, you could do nothing, be miserable, but keep your friends.
it really just depends on what you can and can't live without. no one can really tell which choice to make here, all i can tell you is to weigh your options, and choose what is best for you.
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Posted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 12:34 am
sounds to me he has a little crush on you to but
he is just trying to act "cool" but about the friend , i think you
need to talk about it with her && come up with a solution together .
its very hard to get over smeone regardless how long they have been
together because of the emotional attachments involved . If you feel
like your friend's feelings are more important than some guy who
could end up being a jerk while you're together , i suggest . sticking to
the friend && about your crush thing , before you do anything , dont tell
him because guy would be very proud && the next thing ya know he's all
over you . so talk to a trusted friend or smeone close that you feel can
give you best advices . Good luck =3 && *hugs*
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:31 pm
I will tell you what i told this girl on another thread and what's been told to me in the past. Your friend doesn't own him. It's over. If you want to go out with him go out with him. Your friend will get over it and for her not to it will be very selfish of her. Find out if he likes you or not and if he does and you feel the same then you guys should give it a try.
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