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 Posted: Sat Jan 31, 2009 2:30 pm
alright to start off im bi and have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend..but this other girl comes in and at frist we're friends and i started to realize that i was beginning to like her...alot...and we both found out that we both liked eachother...but..i let her kiss me just once...and i kinda freaked out that i was cheating on my girlfriend with it..i asked my boyfriend about it and he said that it wasnt..but last night she said that she loved me..and that she wanted to be with me..i wanted to be with her too..but the problem is that she wants me to break up with both my girlfriend and boyfriend...but i donno if i can..my mind (or heart i could never tell the difference between them>.<)was telling me that i shouldnt leave someone i love for someone i like..
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Posted: Wed Feb 04, 2009 4:45 pm
I'm sorry but i think you shouldn't have both a girlfriend and a boyfriend anyways. In the end you will have to pick one. It's wrong to let a person get so close to you when you know that you will have to chose and break someones heart. I agree with the new girl. she's right. you have to decide either her or your other boyfriend and girlfriend. You have to really think and make a choice. 1 out of 3. But then again this is your life and you know how to live it. I'm just giving you a suggestion.
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 5:58 pm
im know its not right to do that..but they both know that i have both and they were ok with it...but i know i would have to make a choice (which im not so good at in the first placeDX)its hard to make a choice cause i know i like the new girl more than a friend..but not nessacary love..but my mind is tearing me apart from it cause of the promise i made to my bf about no breaking up til me or him found someone irl>.< and its because of that that i dont think i could date her..even if i wanted to..but im just rambling again..and thanks for the advice though^^
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 6:59 pm
I'm sorry but even if they are all ok with it. It still doesn't make it ok to date both of them. It's just making their life harder and yours as well. and these girls are online? I don't know how old you are but if your under 18 try staying away from online relationships unless you are willing to wait till your older for that person. I can't help to feel bad for you guys theres a lot of unrequited love going on. He loves you, doesn't want to let you go. but you will soon have to make a choice, and by the sound of it i don't think that he will be the choice that you will make. I don't usually curse ever but I think you should make a decision before it bites you in the a**. I know its hard but you have to go through with it. there is no such thing as keeping all of them.
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Posted: Thu Feb 05, 2009 8:02 pm
i see and yah i was planning on waiting til i was older for him but it seemed like everytime we separted we would only get together like in a hour or day or something>.< i sometimes feel like i can let him go and sometimes i feel i cant>.
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