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So, the guy I'm with is the first guy I've ever given a b*****b to.
And I found that I really enjoy it. =) Which is good for both of us.
I've given him a b*****b quite a few times (around 6), and I feel that everytime I get a bit better but there are still a few questions I have..

- He likes it really deep, so I try to go as deep as possible and I gagged a few times. Is that ok?

- From personal experience, I know that I like to have the guy keep going while I orgasm. Is this the same for guys? So should I keep going while he's cumming or should I stop?

And something that bugs me;
After he comes in my mouth and I swallow, he wants to keep making out. At first I was shocked and to be honest I feel weird about it... Anyone else have this?

so to answer your first question my boyfriend also likes it when i go down on him deep and he knows that it makes me gag but i don't mind and he is always very carefull of me. so just make sure you are communicating through the actions it really helps.

as for your second question. my boyfriend loves it when i keep going when and after he orgasms. but i don't go rough, i take my time and kinda keep it light because he sais that it can be sore.
just try it and see how he feels about it

Once something goes past you tounsils something goes on which triggers you to throw up. That is what happens when his p***s goes too far. It is normal to gag and if he can't take you vomiting then dont go deep.
If he cums in your mouth and makes out with you...it's his choice..if you feel weird about it, talk to him. Communication can be a really helpful thing.

About keeping momentum-

my boyfriend likes to keep going for a few seconds after he comes, but if we keep going after that it hurts him. So usually I'll guess when he is getting into the end of his orgasm, or he will use his hands on my hips to signal me to stop.

About kissing after a b*****b-

Yeah, I think it's nweird, too. Like, do they really want to taste their own ejaculate? So usually if my bf goes in for a kiss afterward, I'll kiss him on the cheek instead and try to get him to wait until the taste goes away. I'm starting to be less weirded out by it now, though, because it doesn't seem to bother him.

So when you were giving him oral sex before you felt sick? Was he it because of the taste? Or because you weren't fully comfortable with what you were doing?

If it's the taste, make sure he is clean first of all. A clean p***s shouldn't have much smell or taste to it. But if you're still bothered by it or by the taste of the pre-ejaculate, you can try a flavored lubricant or flavored condom.

If you felt sick because you weren't comfortable with what you were doing then it probably means you're not quite ready emotionally. There's certainly no reason to rush yourself. Get comfortable with him, get comfortable with his p***s, get comfortable with your sexuality, etc. The best way to do that is to take it slow, communicate, and explore his body with your hands.

When you do eventually give oral sex and bring a guy to orgasm, do whatever you want with the semen. It's not like there's a "right" and "wrong" way to do this stuff. xp Some girls swallow it, some spit it in a tissue, some spit it in the sink. Others have the guy tell them when he's about to orgasm so they can take his p***s out of their mouth and let him orgasm in a tissue, in the shower, on their chest, wherever!

If you're doing sexual things with him, you should be able to be honest with him. Besides, we all know that bodies have smells. xp So he shouldn't take it as a personal insult or anything that you want him to be clean for that. So just come right out and say something like, "Go hop in the shower so you're all nice and clean for me." You can even hop in the shower with him and do it there. wink