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 Posted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 10:36 am
I have been going out with my bf for 5 months now and we had gotten into a fight recently, I haven't talked to him for 5 days now, He tried talking to me but I ignored him. If you want to know what the fight was about or really what happened, pm me. But since I haven't been talking to him and or thinking about him, my feelings for him have changed. If I do dump him I want to do it soon but valentines day is coming up and well I don't want to break his heart on that day. So help me
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Posted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 2:17 pm
Whoa, one fight and you're ready to call it quits?
Granted, I don't know what the fight was about...PM me about it if you want to, though.
If it wasn't a fight about something like he's been cheating on you or something major like that, what's the big deal? Every relationship has ups and downs, and no one is going to agree about everything all the time. Buck up and talk to him if you really care. If you don't care enough to talk to him about it, then I don't think you really care about him or the relationship. Also, if you've been with someone for 5 months and not talking to him for 5 days drastically changes the way you feel about him, maybe you never felt deeply for him anyway. If you care about him and the relationship at all, talk to him. If you still decide to break up with him after that, fine, but I think you should at least respect your relationship enough to sit down with him and talk things through.
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Posted: Thu Jan 29, 2009 4:06 pm
I fully agree with what ocean ezriah said
5 months is a while, these things are bound to happen eventually, but then again 5 months is a while, maybe it's time to find some one else
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Posted: Thu Jan 29, 2009 5:01 pm
I couldn't have said it better than oceon ezriah put it. 3nodding If you really care about the guy, you'll find a way to make things right again. But if this relationship isn't worth the effort/time, just dump him and be finished with it. Don't beat yourself up. Couples fight, it's healthy. But if you can't get past this argument and be happy with him, don't bother worrying your little head. ^^
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Posted: Thu Jan 29, 2009 5:49 pm
i would rather dump him now... Seeing as how me suffering to keep the relationship going wouldnt pain just me, but him to. He can be a big boy and take it.
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Posted: Mon Feb 02, 2009 10:07 am
As perfect as my 4 year relationship with arron sounds we butt heads from time to time. Its part of being in a relationship. When arron and I fight and then come up with a solution to fix the problem afterward we both feel so much closer to one another. Try to work things out. There are always some rough patches in any relationship.
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