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 Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 8:57 pm
My stepmom is moving back in this weekend.
[and since no one checks the advice forum i'm putting this ********.
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Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2009 9:00 pm
I figure I should also say that I am now a ticking time bomb.
Do not ******** with me right now.
I can be as bad as Nyzz.
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little_evil_goth Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:05 am
What the ********?! I thought that was sorted! Take out a restraining order and guilt trip your Dad. Then what can they possibly do.
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 12:10 am
C'mon Clem, we do visit that subforum.
That said, I also forsee a talk with your dad very soon, just remember to not lose your temprer, ok?
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 8:52 am
Right well...if you father decides to actually talk to you about the stepmom coming back before she actually does, and not just like five minutes beforehand,I suggest you tell him just exactly how you feel.Sometimes it takes the truth and some cruelty to get through to people,parents included.If he still doesn't get it after you talk to him then I suggest making sure you have someplace to escape to each day.
Anyway,I'm here for you clem.So is everyone else I'm sure. ^_^
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 4:17 pm
LEG: While that sounds grand, I really would rather not. But thanks.
Ives: I am trying. I'm pretty good at keeping my emotions in check, most of the time.
As for talks and what not, he actually did tell my brother and I today. (i found out from my sister) He demands respect and support. I just sat there and nodded because that's all I can do.
I've tried telling him how I feel before, and it never goes over well.
But I am starting to move along in moving in with my mom. And he's being very positive over that.
Thanks guys. <3
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little_evil_goth Vice Captain
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Posted: Wed Jan 14, 2009 10:34 pm
Well moving in with your Mum sounds good, especially if it'll be easier on you. And I can sort of understand your Dad's actions ((Not the making up part but putting his wants first part.)) its not like you're kids anymore, and at least he took the time to tell you.
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 7:43 pm
Yea, I can kind of understand part of his actions as well.
But you're right, we aren't kids anymore, but we're still being treated like them. He doesn't tell me what's going on and he doesn't involve me. He throws it all at me and basically says, Deal with it.
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little_evil_goth Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 9:24 pm
Maybe you guys need to sit him down and explain that you'll respect his decisions but he has to respect your opinions.
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Posted: Fri Jan 16, 2009 4:10 pm
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