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 Posted: Mon Jan 12, 2009 7:39 am
But eh, I figured this was the best place to put this.
I want kids. Two if I can manage, though I would settle with only one. Problem is I have...issues with sex. For a lot of you that might sound dumb. Its nothing to do with my husband. I want sex. Its just...complicated.
And now it seems like every freaking person I know (IRL mind you) is getting pregnant, or their girlfriend/wife/whatever is pregnant.
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And I usually get the whole 'maternal' feeling every now and then, and then it goes away. But it isn't going away. My friend is upset as well. But the thing is she is having regular sex. Its getting to the point where I'm crying about it.
I think if I was the one not wanting it, it would be different. But I can't and it really upsets me.
I mean, if we still have problems in a few years we can...go about it another way. But right now we can't. My husband really wants children as well. But if we got pregnant right now it would have to be an 'accident' baby. He doesn't want to 'plan' for a child yet.
It just...really depresses me. I've always wanted a child. In school we would do the 'what do you want to be when you grow up' things. I wanted to be a wife and mother.
I dunno...I needed to vent. I've got other guilds but most of them don't really get it. So I thought I might try it here.
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Posted: Thu Jan 15, 2009 10:41 pm
My wife has the baby envy too. Even though we have plenty of kids. She miscarried in November and one of her coworkers also got pregnant around the same time. But in my wife's head the coworker should have lost her baby because of her habits and she feels ... incompetent? I don't know. But I know what you are going through with wanting a baby and seeing everyone around you being pregnant.
Have you come any closer to overcoming your issues with sex?
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Posted: Sat Jan 17, 2009 1:07 pm
Actually today I did! Like a MAJOR breakthrough. Not sex but like HUGE for me. I'm very excited and in a very good mood.
I think everyone having kids is really pushing me to solve it. Before I wasn't really...worrying about it. We had a good sex life. Just not a lot of penetration.
But now...its like "Come on, you gotta fix this."
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Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2009 11:27 pm
Well, good job!
I'm sure with you getting a little bit closer it will give you an extra boost of confidence or whatever it is you might need to fix the problems with penetration.
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Posted: Sun Feb 08, 2009 9:20 am
Every now and then I have weird spurts of, "Let's get pregnant." And I know it's just a biological thingy from being around a guy reguarly... You get the urge to make babies... :/ It's just not the right time for us. Not a big enough house. Old, bad car. No degrees. No money. It's just not the right time... Maybe in a few years.
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