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 Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:18 pm
Well, today has been rough, and this is why I continue to tell many of you the party MAY be postponed. I plan on getting 99 Thieving in dedication to what you will read here:
My sister in law, wife to my second oldest brother, has been pregnant for the past 23 weeks with a girl that they were planning on calling "Zoe Hazel". The pregnancy was an infertile one, since she could not naturally bore a child on her own due to various issues (which I still do not know of my own.)
They both found out it was going to be a girl on December 17, my brother's birthday, and gave us all a present on December 24th that said that it's a girl.
My Christmas Break went all crazy on Christmas Day, on her 22nd week (the baby was due beginning of May), she started having cramps and bleeding about 9:00 at night. My brother (her husband) and my sister rushed her to the hospital where they found out her water had broken. It was then determined by the doctors that she would have to stay in the hospital until Zoe was born.
They were hoping at this point that they could get her to 24-25 weeks into the pregnancy so that the Zoe could be put on steroids and etc. to help her develop because otherwise she would not be developed enough. From then till today, she has had the occasional stress problems, with some nurses, bleeding, and among other things.
From what I can collect, on the night of January 3rd, everything was good. Zoe was in good health, the mother was in good health. It wasn't until 5:30 this morning that my mom came into my room saying that Zoe was born, and she wouldn't live long. I had to stay back at home while my dad and mom went to the hospital.
I talked to my mom recently, she said that Zoe only lived for an hour and she was very beautiful. She was too small to live, and didn't develop enough. I'm not sure why she was born so early, that I haven't gained information.
So, if you can, please put my brother, his wife, and Zoe in your prayers. They're having a hard time coping already.
Rest in Peace, Zoe Hazel. You will always be my niece.
Jan. 4, 2009 5:30am to Jan. 5, 2009 6:30am.
~Hampy
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:32 pm
Well, I'm not the best person to say anything to help anyone else now a days, but you know that's life. Let me lighten the mood at least; 
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 1:39 pm
Damn. I don't know what to say, but perhaps it is best not to say anything.
Except that I love you, Hammy.
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 2:17 pm
lawl wtf Bombi?
I love you too, Kail.
I'm fine now; I actually copied from my clan's page, wrote it this morning when I was much worse condition.
Definitely hard, the mother is sleeping at the moment, very pale, very weak. Just needs sleep and alone time neutral
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 2:36 pm
Love you Hammy.
We'll be here for you. heart heart
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 4:50 pm
you don't care much when it happens to a random person but when it happens to you or your friends you finally understand what those random people feel
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2009 10:16 pm
im so sorry hammy heart I cant begin to imagine how your family and your sister in law and brother feel right now ,i wish you's all the best and the guild is allways here for you heart crying
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2009 12:54 am
Every life is special, no matter how long it lasts. Zoe had a major impact in her short time here, and I'm certain your family has learned something from that. Zoe completed her goal in this life (whatever that may be) and went on to the next.
I hope everything else bodes well.
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