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 Posted: Sat Dec 20, 2008 4:39 pm
 Crushing on someone? A student? A popular jock/cheerleader? A geek? Your best friend? A teacher? Here is the school romance advice forum! Whether you're straight, gay, or bi, you will not be rejected or ridiculed. Don't be afraid to post here and ask for help. I'll be glad to give you some Dear Abby advice. We accept all romance here. If you want to just talk and mush about them, that's just fine, too! If you're having issues posting here, and want it to be a secret, you can ask me via PM. The subject should be Sora x Kairi Troubles.
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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 7:46 pm
『 Well, it isn't exactly that I'm crushing or pining, rather that I've found myself a very dear, lovely and all-around amazing (Cosplays as Roxas to my Demyx) girl friend who, every time I try to be near (ie. kiss, hug, hell- even holding hands) security and administration are right there, screaming at us for PDA and threatening suspension.
And the ******** up thing is is that it's only with us; we're one of only two lesbian couples in the school, and whenever there's a hetero-makeout-orgy being held, they turn a blind eye, but GOD FORBID I give my girlfriend a kiss on the cheek before going into class!
And SEND ME TO HELL if I want to hold her HAND. They act like we're spreading a deadly plague around, and I'm so sick of it. All I want to be able to do is hold my girlfriend while I sit outside and do my term paper! But THAT can't happen, no, because we both have vag's.
The Truly ******** part of it is, I'm 18, so I should be able to legally flip them the bird and say ******** it, but I don't want to get my GF in trouble, either!
=pant pant= I'm just really ******** up about this, and I know it's profiling and everything because they only enforce the PDA rules selectively, but there's nothing you can really do about it short of taking it to court, and I don't have money to buy lunch on any given day, let alone to afford a good lawyer.』
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Posted: Mon Mar 09, 2009 9:24 pm
Shoopuf Disaster 『 Well, it isn't exactly that I'm crushing or pining, rather that I've found myself a very dear, lovely and all-around amazing (Cosplays as Roxas to my Demyx) girl friend who, every time I try to be near (ie. kiss, hug, hell- even holding hands) security and administration are right there, screaming at us for PDA and threatening suspension.
And the ******** up thing is is that it's only with us; we're one of only two lesbian couples in the school, and whenever there's a hetero-makeout-orgy being held, they turn a blind eye, but GOD FORBID I give my girlfriend a kiss on the cheek before going into class!
And SEND ME TO HELL if I want to hold her HAND. They act like we're spreading a deadly plague around, and I'm so sick of it. All I want to be able to do is hold my girlfriend while I sit outside and do my term paper! But THAT can't happen, no, because we both have vag's.
The Truly ******** part of it is, I'm 18, so I should be able to legally flip them the bird and say ******** it, but I don't want to get my GF in trouble, either!
=pant pant= I'm just really ******** up about this, and I know it's profiling and everything because they only enforce the PDA rules selectively, but there's nothing you can really do about it short of taking it to court, and I don't have money to buy lunch on any given day, let alone to afford a good lawyer.』 I'd offer you my mom, but you're probably not in my state.
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Posted: Tue Mar 10, 2009 8:14 pm
『 Probably not, though thank you anyway. = o=
It's just a bit stressful, what with term papers being due and all soon, and all I want to do is spend time with her, and they all-but-forbid it. D': 』
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Posted: Thu Mar 12, 2009 1:42 pm
not to take away from the gravity of your situaton but i need advice. say i like a girl (or two in the same situation) who likes a guy that i happen to respect. the thing is i think of this girl so much it hurts. what the hell do i do?
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Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 9:50 am
Difficult. Very difficult. Hmm...I'd say try to win her over. If she's not going out with this other fella, then it's not disrespecting him to pursue her. If she does start going out with him, that's when I'd back off. Just spend time around her, and hope that she starts looking at you in a different way.
I'm not the romance expert, though, so you should probably gather more opinions...
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Posted: Fri Mar 13, 2009 12:56 pm
no, shes already going out with him. it sucks because i really dont want to steal her (or if you prefer the term: make her jump ship) because the guys a friend right?
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Posted: Sun Mar 15, 2009 8:41 pm
『 That's a tough situation to be in, actually...
That's also how me and mine started out.. >,>;
what I had to do was bite my tongue and stay with her as a friend. If it's meant to be, then it will come to frutation, but all you can really do here is be there for her as a friend and hope she figures out that you like her... 』
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Posted: Tue Mar 17, 2009 12:53 pm
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 4:03 pm
These things are never easy to begin with. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 12:22 pm
ive asked her out previously (both of them) and things are always worse when they know its coming
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