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It's usually pretty easy to tell the difference. An uncircumcised p***s has quite a bit more skin on it than a circumcised p***s. This extra skin is usually easiest to see when the p***s is not erect. Circumcision also leaves scarring, which can range from not too noticeable to very obvious. You can find pictures on the internet too if you do a search. If you're still unsure, talk to your parents or doctor about it, even if it's embarrassing; it's something every boy really should know.

Why would your girlfriend want you to be circumcised? You said you two couldn't even tell the difference for one thing, so I can't see how it would matter to her now. confused For another thing, there's nothing wrong with not being circumcised. In fact, it's the natural way that men are.

I agree with you. Ideally, I think guys should stay natural. If I have a son, I plan on keeping him natural. But that's a whole other topic I suppose!

The important thing here is that you stand up for what you feel is right for you. It's your body. Do not let her talk you into circumcision if it's something you don't feel is right for you at this point. It's a big, irreversible, and personal decision.

And to be perfectly honest, if she wants you to be circumcised, it's probably just a matter of ignorance anyway. It's not like the circumcised p***s smells like strawberries, tastes like chocolate, is immune to STDs, is twice as pleasurable for female partners, or any other such thing, you know? xp So what's the difference? xp So she might be saying that based on misinformation or something. Maybe if you educate her on circumcision and give her some time to get used to your p***s (when you two are ready for that), then she'll realize that it's not really going to make a big difference one way or the other for her anyway. In fact, the circumcised p***s and uncircumcised p***s pretty much look the same when erect. And most women only really come in contact with their partner's p***s when it's erect anyway! blaugh

Here's a link to another thread where a few ladies share their experiences with both kinds of penises: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=13381873 As I said there, I did notice a difference with smell and sensitivity in my partners. But sensitivity is usually a good thing. And for the stronger smell issue, meh. That's easily fixed with a good shower. xp Circumcised guys can smell nasty too if they're not clean. So it's really not that big of a deal. 3nodding