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 Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 2:33 pm
That god sends out someone very special in our lives. Someone we could be spending the rest of our lives with maybe...
Well I met a guy at church a couple of years ago. I went their with him for a while. I met him for the first time and he seem so different. Like someone radiating light given off throughout the entire room.
Of course he was a christian and knew he had an awesome relationship with the lord...i think...I had gone with a friend to the youth group of this church. I was quiet and very shy of course. I easily get embarassed kind of girl. I surely did with him.
First day I saw him I wanted to get to know him more, so I decided to go to church on wednesday nights and Sunday mornings. I observed; watched him as much as I could. I didn't want to jump into anything. I wanted to know the person he was. After a while...I finally obtained a lot from what we talked. It was more like a "Hi! How are you? Whats your favorite song?" type of conversation, but nothing more. He told me about himself a little. It just stuck to me right after I started to get to know him better.
After a while of getting to know him. He left church. Sunday mornings I would come in. I didn't see him, so the first time I figured maybe he was just busy. Second time. I began to get worried. Third time. Something definately came up. Other times I left church crying. He never knew how I felt. It took a while to get over him. I felt like it was to late and I would never ever see him.
6-months to a year later. I got on myspace and I found him on a friends myspace. I added him and sent him a message. I was so relieved to see him(saw him n a picture profile). I couldn't ever get over the excitement, so I said HEY! and so did he. Got into a conversation and then we exchanged numbers. Then we planned to hangout. We talked on the phone this pass January. Then I found out he had just got out of a relationship with someone. We were on and off talking for a while...
I didn't know what the problem was.
It went on from January February, march april then it led to few months of not talking in between.. Then he stopped talking to me all around after april. Around august he messaged me. I said hi and he said hi.
I think we both had Insecurities.
To this day I think about him from time to time. He was the person I still think about and it seems I will always carry the person I thought he was with me, but it only seems I move on.
I am just not sure where God plays in all of this or if hes only trying to teach me a lesson. Please anyone give me your opinions. I can't even talk about this with aNOTHER FRIEND. pLEASE DON'T JUDGE ME, BUT GIVE ME HONEST OPINIONS AND CRITICISM i CAN TAKE.
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Posted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 3:00 pm
I definitely think there is a reason God put him in your life. God puts people like that in your life so you can learn from them. Maybe he will show up again and something will happen between the two of you.
I think God put someone like that in my life. On Saturday, my boyfriend and I broke up after almost 6 months. I thought I would be furious with him and wouldn't talk to him for awhile. Well the next day he sent me a text message and we texted all day and then talked on the phone until late in the night. Things aren't even awkward, and my ex-boyfriend (of all people) is trying to help me get through the breakup. Weird situation, I know, but our God is a mysterious God, and I know there is a reason why I'm still talking to my ex-boyfriend and why it seems as if it never happened. Like really, someone was arguing with Regis (my ex-boyfriend) because she didn't believe that we had broken up.
Basically, God has a reason for you meeting every single person you interact and connect with. I don't think God is trying to teach you a lesson, but I think he knows that the guy will make a big impact on your life
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Posted: Sat Nov 29, 2008 9:46 pm
For sure< God puts people into our live and takes them out. I have had a somewhat similar situation. I now completley see what God wanted me to get out of those relationships with people. I also feel that if you put God first in your life things just seem to fit. And you can see him work through people. God is great, and I love him.
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Posted: Mon Dec 08, 2008 9:13 am
God puts the people in our lives there for a reason. Every single person you meet, there is a reason behind it. You might not know why today or tomorrow or even years later but you will know eventaully. Its like that old christian song, thank you for giving to the lord. He lived but it wasn't until he died that he found out so many people were all affected by him and his words and actions. Some people he knew directly and others he didn't. Almost reminds me of the movie Pay it Forward, very sad movie but very good movie. It starts with one person and one act of kindness. You saying hi occasionly to your friend might make his day. You never know. But God does. And there is a plan for all of it.
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Angel of the Silver Snow Crew
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Posted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 3:45 pm
God never puts someone in your life without a reason for it. Perhaps it was to learn from him. Perhaps he was only a passing stranger to show you that not everything is as it seems. Or maby it was more, he could be the one. But don't get to excited about it, pray about it. God has a way of working these things out the way he knows they should be. wink He has a plan, so if it turns out that this guy isn't the guy then just trust him. he knows better than we do, and he will always bless you if you let him.
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Posted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 11:15 pm
He has known you before you were even conceved...He most definatly known when and who you are destined with
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Posted: Sun May 02, 2010 6:51 am
Well you know, I had probably the same problem... There was a girl in my life that didn't care about my physical defect at all, she only cared about who I am... I had a relationship with her... When we broke up, I was so sad, so depressed for a while, She said to me; 'You're to sweet. I can't start a serious relationship when I'm 15 years old...' I thought; ' eek Holy s**t, she can tell me that in 2 weeks? eek ' But, you know, I constantly prayed to God to show me His love. I've had a lot depression in my life. (Almost enough to let me kill myself) But she gave me such love, I never knew love, But I could feel a glim of God's love right through her love, just when I needed it the most.
God bless you and I hope this story can help you. 3nodding
Darkboy92
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