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 Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 1:06 pm
ok my first problem is the the guy i like at my school probley still has a gf
and i cant tell him that i like him
2 i cant talk to the other guy i like
3.the guy i like at my school probaly found out that i like him from one of my old friends standing next to me and that whole week had me worried and it still worries me now
what should i do
give me some addvice please
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 3:53 pm
Find another guy to crush on. It will be easy seeing how you're at that age where you fall in love with any cute guy that pays attention to you.
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 4:08 pm
I am your Mord Sith Find another guy to crush on. It will be easy seeing how you're at that age where you fall in love with any cute guy that pays attention to you. There's an age when that happens? surprised
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 5:45 pm
how about go with the person that you think douse not like u or tell bouth the boys that you like them and see what happens uhhh.... what am i saying oh well there you this is what u get when u ask ppl lol xp lol burning_eyes hahaha i am burning now oh yah
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 5:58 pm
no its fine there all really good
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Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 8:59 pm
Britomartis-the-Valiant I am your Mord Sith Find another guy to crush on. It will be easy seeing how you're at that age where you fall in love with any cute guy that pays attention to you. There's an age when that happens? surprised :O You didn't know about it?
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Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 9:28 pm
y can't you talk to the other guy you like?
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Posted: Sat Nov 15, 2008 7:43 pm
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Posted: Sun Nov 16, 2008 8:18 pm
i say ask him straight out if he has a girl friend or not... if so, then count your losses and shamelessly flirt with ur other crush. if not, then...welll, thats up to you.
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Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 3:59 pm
Ok, so i'm the shyest person I know (lol ppl find that hard to believe!) but i cannot talk to the guys i like for the life of me and i cannot flirt....
but just find out what's going on and talk a little bit, but make it casual. i can't really help without more details... liek how often you see them etc but i hope i could
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Posted: Wed Nov 19, 2008 8:37 pm
Well first of all your age matters a lot. For instance, I am 13 and don't bother dating because I don't believe I know a single person who really knows who they are yet, or who they will be, including me. At my age, relationships are often shallow and short term. Of course there are succesfull relationships, but they are few.
From your post, it sounds like you are young like me. All of this sounds like the normal crush. If you could reply in more detail about your predicament, we could all definitely give more quality advice, but for now I will go with this.
If you are too shy to talk to him now, how would you react if he became your boyfreind? Answer yourself honestly. If you would be on dates with him, too shy and embarrassed to even have a straighforward conversation, then you are definately not ready for a relationship. Even with my relationship experience of zero, my common sense tells you that there is no point in dating someone that you are not comfortable around. When you are seeing someone, I think they should be one of the easiest people to talk to out of all your freinds.
Also, what is your reason for wanting a boyfreind? What are you hoping to get out of the relationship? (emotional and intellectually, not physically...) If you are caught up in your newly discovered horomones, suddely seeing boys in a new light, don't date just for the sake of trying it.
As for the rest of your worries, those are trivial. If you don't want the guy you like to know that you like him, it is definately just a crush that you should keep to yourself. It will either pass, or become stronger untill you want him to know how you feel.
My advice may be lacking some important parts, I don't know. My last bit of advice is wait for someone with more experience to give you some tips!
Anyway, I hope this has helped you.
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Posted: Thu Nov 20, 2008 3:41 pm
ok that helped alot. so if it is a cruch( which i think it might be more) then i wont tell him(yet). but i cant stop thinking about him hes like everywhere i turn. like this one time in church we were looking in the bible and his name was in there. i was so mad but happy at the same time. the guys names are isaiah and austin. austin's i no is a crush, but isaiahs is like a level more
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Posted: Thu Feb 12, 2009 5:56 pm
now i have a new problem i like another guy. he nows i like him and he likes one of my friends. and use to like one of my other friends
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