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 Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 9:29 am
Yeah, so I couldn't think of a better title for my topic. ^__^;
However, what I wish to discuss is something that bothers me...
I'm in love with someone 4 years younger than me. He is my life.
What upsets me is that my family might not understand.
Many people see nothing wrong in a girl dating an older guy...
Yet when a female dates a younger male, suddenly drama is involved.
I've had arguements with friends and such, therefore creating my fear.
Also, my grandmother is old fashioned. The one I love is part of my countrys rivalry. Of course, I know it is nonsence but where I live, they make it such a great deal. I don't know what I should do...
Could anyone give me advice on my predicament?M00N F0X
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 9:35 am
I'm afraid i dont know much on this subject. But, I dont see anything wrong with you being with a younger guy...but i can understand how your family might not like it.
your right, it doesnt matter where you both are living. are you planning on living together? (j/w) but do you think that mayb you and him just need time alone? or have you tried that?
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 10:00 am
Have you ever read Romeo and Juliet? Yeah, go for it. Hope you two don't kill yourselves over it.
As for younger, four years isn't that much. I mean, if you were, like 40 and he was 20, I would say, "GOOD GOD NO." Go for it. Explain how much you love him and your family should understand and if they don't, they don't really care about your feelings.
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 7:45 pm
Honestly, I could give you information on your predicament but we all know no information given on a site can ever be the right kind of information that you need. Its like godmodding...i shall explain... Do this and that and EVERYTHING shall be alright. Wrong, I have never met a parent where they were ok with everything. There always yelling and disagreeing and like he way to young...yada yada. However, as long as you both are above 18 I honestly see no point in hiding it. As well if you both are under 18 like your 17 and hes 13 then we have a problem. Even if hes 16 and your 20 thats not way to big of a deal but maturity wise it might not be the best road for you. I still hope for the best for both of you.
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Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 3:11 pm
forget what others tell you is right and wrong and do what your heart tells you. i mean so what if they dont like it. if it makes you happy do it. biggrin
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