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Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 10:31 am
So I'm kind of new to this guild and some of the topics that have caught my attention are the questions about relationships. Some of the replies that I have read have made me worry. Are we as humans really that confused about the opposite sex? Well, since I don't have the time to really read through all of the threads I've decided to do something else. I'm lending a helping hand. Any questions, whether they be from males or females, about relationships (be it friendship, love, sex, etc) I would be happy to do my best to answer. No I am not a relationship expert, but I will do my best to give advice to shine light onto your ordeal. So please, if you are still in the dark, feel free to PM me.
//EDIT There really is no question that will shock me.
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Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 11:27 am
mb_bunny So I'm kind of new to this guild and some of the topics that have caught my attention are the questions about relationships. Some of the replies that I have read have made me worry. Are we as humans really that confused about the opposite sex? Well, since I don't have the time to really read through all of the threads I've decided to do something else. I'm lending a helping hand. Any questions, whether they be from males or females, about relationships (be it friendship, love, sex, etc) I would be happy to do my best to answer. No I am not a relationship expert, but I will do my best to give advice to shine light onto your ordeal. So please, if you are still in the dark, feel free to PM me. If you can mediate what it is guys want, please help me! My man is sooooooooooooooooooooo confusing! It's like he wants me to do some kind of test or something mew, I'm sooooo lost ;_;
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Posted: Mon Oct 27, 2008 3:46 pm
princesschelsea5 If you can mediate what it is guys want, please help me! My man is sooooooooooooooooooooo confusing! It's like he wants me to do some kind of test or something mew, I'm sooooo lost ;_; I sent you a PM. biggrin
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Posted: Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:57 pm
I am asking this question for my friend, who isn't in this guild yet. A couple month ago, well, 3 months to be almost exact, she moved, and starting going on a new bus to school and from school. the first day, while she was sitting there, this guy, I'm gonna call him.... 'Jake', sat behind her with a friend, and sort of bothered her. He made sounds in her ear, and said things like 'Hi' 'You should get an award for ignoring people' < Now, ever time for that entire month that he noticed her, he said hi or bye or whatever. But, about the beginning of Febuary, this started in january, he just stopped. When she saw him around school, he would sometimes glance at her, but that was it.
She just wants to know if you have any clue what's up. It wasn't a new school, just a new house, new bus. Also, she is a little... well... really goofy, and everyone knows her name, not many people like her, and rumors are flying liek crazy about her. [In gym, she'll sometimes run around arms up like an airplane.]
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Posted: Sat Mar 28, 2009 7:18 pm
Honestly, I believe that people overexaggerate on how different the genders are. We are, after all, humans, and thus our likes and dislikes shouldn't differ too broadly. Still, you have to realize that each and everybody is unique to a certain extent, emphasis on "certain extent."
Anyways, to the post above mine (Aquatic Lightning), it sounds like "Jake" previously had liked your friend, but got tired of lack of progression and just gave up on attempting to form a relationship. There could be a million other explanations, but that one seems most probable.
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Posted: Tue Apr 21, 2009 9:52 pm
I agree with Otfee on the situation concerning "Jake". Sounds like he had a thing for your friend, but gave up.
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Posted: Tue Dec 29, 2009 12:34 pm
I know I might seem really idiot asking this but is it ok not to be in love? I mean, I'm 15,the age when all my classmates are looking for boys,and look at guys saying things like "This one's cute" or "That one's hot" and I stare at them 'cause all boys look the same for me. Is it ok? I mean,am I wrong not looking after boys? (I'm not really sure if I was clear enough sweatdrop )
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Posted: Sun Jan 03, 2010 4:28 pm
i have a boyfriend and his computer broke so we arnt able to really talk anymore and i sent him a message on facebook cause he checks it with his blackberry and about two days ago the day after a i sent him the message he checked his facebook and repleyed to some of his friends profiles and didnt replay back.... is that supposed to mean anything?
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Posted: Fri Jan 15, 2010 8:33 pm
Shadow of the Luna I know I might seem really idiot asking this but is it ok not to be in love? I mean, I'm 15,the age when all my classmates are looking for boys,and look at guys saying things like "This one's cute" or "That one's hot" and I stare at them 'cause all boys look the same for me. Is it ok? I mean,am I wrong not looking after boys? (I'm not really sure if I was clear enough sweatdrop ) Just because your friends are interested so soon doesn't mean you should be or that it's weird not to be. While it may seem impossible to imagine for some people, most high school relationships don't last and it's more about seeing how long until the relationship breaks apart rather than to what level if intimacy you'll progress to. Furthermore, there are plenty of people who don't get interested in finding someone until later in their life, myself included. Focus on the opposite gender later and by no means should you allow it to be a distraction or feel pressured to do as your friend are. Wolf fan98 i have a boyfriend and his computer broke so we arnt able to really talk anymore and i sent him a message on facebook cause he checks it with his blackberry and about two days ago the day after a i sent him the message he checked his facebook and repleyed to some of his friends profiles and didnt replay back.... is that supposed to mean anything? You're honestly reading too much in to this. The number one part of a good relationship is trust and not crushing someone with insane amounts of attention or expecting them to do so do you. I'm not saying you're doing this, but just don't take the fact that he didn't respond to your message yet offensively.
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