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 Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 6:23 pm
I have a question.
Sorry if this is in the wrong place.
Me and my boyfriend had intercourse four times.
The condom looked fine, after when we were done.
We took the condoms from his younger brother.
Later his brother said that he poked holes in them.
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And im kinda worried cause like.... he could be lying, or not.
How can you tell if there's holes in the condom package?
Wouldnt you feel the sperm in you or something ?
I dont think there was any because after when he was done, the sperm was still in it,, looked okay...
im really scared.
lawl : (
and my boyfriend said to take plan b tommrow before 2.
just incase.
im not sure if that's right ;|
its going to mess up with my period and what not.
i dont know what to do. o;
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 6:51 pm
I would take it just in case...because you can't feel the sperm just in case he came. I know I can't feel anything. sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 6:58 pm
miss_cool_danielle I would take it just in case...because you can't feel the sperm just in case he came. I know I can't feel anything. sweatdrop Alright. : | But that would mess up my period ;o! That's the thing im scared off, also like, the side affects. how long would i have to take it ? and the cost ? : S
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:32 pm
It doesn't cost anything if you go to Planned Parenthood. I know the side effects scared the crap out me too. I haven't had any side effects yet except for a little bit of stomach pain...The sooner you take it I think there will be less side effects... because I took it right away the very next day.
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:40 pm
(this part confused me a little) You have to take it within 72hours ( 3 days ) after you had sex. You take the first pill. Then 12 hours later you take the second...make sure you have an alarm to tell you. Because its easy to forget.
It will be alright... biggrin
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:43 pm
That sounds really weird. Chances are his brother is an a*****e and is just saying that to scare you, but take the pill if you don't want to leave anything up to chance. I don't see why someone would poke holes in their own condoms if they were planning to use them, unless he knew your boyfriend was going to take some or something. And I think this is one of those lessons learned... Don't take condoms from somewhere where you don't know where they've been or if they might have been messed with. Best to just go to the store and buy your own and keep them out of reach of other people, that way you know nothing's been done to them. Don't use anything that hasn't come from a sealed box that you purchased.
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 7:51 pm
Vickicat That sounds really weird. Chances are his brother is an a*****e and is just saying that to scare you, but take the pill if you don't want to leave anything up to chance. I don't see why someone would poke holes in their own condoms if they were planning to use them, unless he knew your boyfriend was going to take some or something. And I think this is one of those lessons learned... Don't take condoms from somewhere where you don't know where they've been or if they might have been messed with. Best to just go to the store and buy your own and keep them out of reach of other people, that way you know nothing's been done to them. Don't use anything that hasn't come from a sealed box that you purchased. Yeah that does sound weird. and his brother is really messed up in the head o: Im thinking about it, weather I should take it or not. It's hard. cause im scared of the random period, and something about if you dont get your period after blah blah days. Yeah.
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 8:02 pm
The other posters are right. Just take the pill. What's worse, a pregnancy or one abnormal period?
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 8:14 pm
LorienLlewellyn The other posters are right. Just take the pill. What's worse, a pregnancy or one abnormal period? Pregnancy is worse. I'll go tommrow and get it. Thank you who gave me advice : D! It really helped me.
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 8:21 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 8:38 pm
Great. You might be able to get more condoms and another method of birth control tomorrow too if you plan on going to Planned Parenthood or Family Planning. The Family Planning that I go to practically shoves condoms down your throat when you walk in. xp And they have lots of other methods too, and two methods are better than one!
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 9:15 pm
LorienLlewellyn Great. You might be able to get more condoms and another method of birth control tomorrow too if you plan on going to Planned Parenthood or Family Planning. The Family Planning that I go to practically shoves condoms down your throat when you walk in. xp And they have lots of other methods too, and two methods are better than one! I just wanna take plan b.
I'll see if I can go.
*is nervous* xD
sweatdrop
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 9:20 pm
Chrissy Chaotic I just wanna take plan b.
I'll see if I can go.
*is nervous* xD
sweatdrop Don't be scared! The people at the Family Planning that I go to are all really nice. Make sure to schedule a pap too if you haven't had one yet (all girls have to get them every year once they become sexually active).
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Posted: Mon Oct 13, 2008 8:59 am
Wow, I'm reall sorry bout that. Oh, one more thing you should know. ONLY buy condoms from somewhere trustworthy (like here, its Walmart or a pharmacy, or the health dep.) Gas station condoms ARE NOT the best things to buy. Mostly because they're usually PAST the expiration date. stare
Also, you may want to consider birth control (if you aren't on it already). It's eliminated a lot of the worry in me and my boyfriends relationship. mrgreen
GOOD LUCK THO!
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