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Posted: Tue Sep 30, 2008 2:01 pm
Now I don't know if I can talk about this, but something extremely appen to me over a few days ago. I was a accuse being the father of a unborn child, by some girl I had stop having relation with. She saids I was the last one she was with, and that the timing of this was suspicious.
I have my own opinion on this, as I always wear a plastic on me, never in my life I hadven't, in addition I always check if it broken afterwards of my duty. To have her accuse me of being the father would be the thing a girl would do due to it might happen, but now I am hearing that she had been having relations with other men around the same time with me, and that it could be any of the six guys she been with. To put more fuel to the fire, I have been inform by so many sources that her boyfriend left her about five days before of my accusation from her, and that boyfriend wants her to get some guy to give her money to help baby cause he won't and she doesn't want him not to love her.
I know what I should do in this sceneario, but if you could. I would love to hear other people's opinion.
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Posted: Tue Sep 30, 2008 8:53 pm
...When the baby's born, get a DNA test. That's all the advice I can give you right now.
And before that happens, you better not verbally abuse her, even if she is verbally abusing you(and maybe even physically abusing)...because you don't know for sure. What if you hurt her (mentally) and you WERE the father? It'll look so bad on you.
So just wait it out.
Will she get an abortion?
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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 5:34 am
The DNA test would be perfect... And yes, don't abuse her in any way... I mean, even if she's lying about it, she is physically and mentally weaker then you at the current moment.
And I personally am not liking the idea of abortions... I mean, its a living child ; o ;...
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Posted: Wed Oct 01, 2008 12:43 pm
Yes tell me about. I haven't been talking down to her, but she is so persistant, calling me when I'm with my family, coming to my door at night ,and sending messages of all kinds. If I am the father, I would help her, but the way she is reacting......I don't know.
I said to her to get a DNA test, but she saids "Don't you believe me! It's your child!"
I don't know if she will have a abortion, but its not my decision to make. Don't even know when the baby is born she won't said. I made have lost myself with her sometimes, but its just gets to that point that I snapped, but I've tried to control myself as best I can, but she is so.........sigh.
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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 4:05 pm
Can you fix you sentences please?
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 12:22 pm
What do you not understand cynn? confused I think I put everything in good words, just in a way if someone is actually speaking to you.
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 8:36 pm
its not that, you're just missing some words in your sentences. Like the sentence: I don't if she will have a abortion. I think you missed "know" in there... or something. I think cynn ment to fix the spelling mistakes. But thats all that I saw.
and on the other hand... dang, that's gotta suck to be you man.
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Posted: Thu Oct 09, 2008 7:41 pm
Oui. >.> It's annoying because I don't understand sentences when they aren't complete.
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Posted: Fri Oct 10, 2008 2:45 pm
Well I fixed them a bit, but I hope you understand them now.
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Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2009 4:06 pm
You can have a DNA test while she is pregnant. Not really recommended but it will help ease your mind. And most of the guys I know who have this problem end up not being the daddy. sorry sucks to be you right now.
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