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 Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 3:21 pm
Okay here the deal. Just the other day I was eating lunch with my friends and all of a sudden they started to act like total dicks. So they hid my book bag and when i went to find it they kicked me out of my seat. When I told them I want my seat back they said, They don't want me there. I caused the whole scene and about 10 kids who were sitting at the table behind me just stared at me as I left in anger.
Also this wasn't the first time this happened they did this before and when I left one of those assholes begged me to come back when he's the one who has been insulting me so I did and guess what? More insults and that's when i questioned my relationship with them. stare
So today I decided to sit by myself until 2 of my friends joined me being the only ones whom actually think of me as a great friend. So I was going to go to my next class the assholes came to my friends saying. "He why do you hang out with him? He's a gay a** nerd who rapes little kids" My friends just ignored him but I started to get mad that there trying to get my friends turn against me.
So then they insulted me some more and right there I was about to punch the fat gut of his in but 3 teachers stared at me making sure I didn't do it. Also one of them is in my class and threatens me I only responded with. "I wish you would." because I'm not the one who takes threats very lightly I also take tang-soo-do so I can easily kick his a**.
So in other words I'm saying those evil little assholes are trying to get my friends to leave me too that has happened to me too many times and I'm just sick of it! I would like some advice on trying not to unleash my anger and aggression on them and how to deal with them.
Okay so just yesterday called out to my 2 friends to sit with me and what did they do? THEY TURNED THE OTHER CHEEK AND SIT WITH THEM!
I ate by myself and they decided to rub it in my face reminding me of the fact that I feel lonely and have no friends. Now I feel like crap during school and now I've become reclusive again. I seriously hate school.
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 4:40 pm
you need to find better people to eat lunch with.
it takes a LOT of guts to walk away from those types of people without killing them, believe me i know.
if those loyal to you really know you, then they won't be swayed by what other people say, and you just have to trust that they know those things aren't true.
you need to tell the school councelor about those threas they're making. they couls get in serious trouble, and you could get them off your back.
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Posted: Fri Sep 26, 2008 7:04 pm
yea she's right stay away from them. they are not worth it. try not to get into fights because the only one who will end up losing is you. but if they keep on harassing you tell the teachers im sure they could do something about it.
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 11:17 am
aren't there other people in the school you could try to hang out with? try to some some because the current group isn't working for you.
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Posted: Tue Oct 07, 2008 7:58 pm
man, i'm sorry. i've had something like that happen before. i went completely insane. i prolly did the wrong thing by writing all over the walls and throwing s**t. for one, it makes a huge mess that your parents will kill you for, and it only helps you feel better for a moment.
mkay, so later what i did was become friends with other people. honestly, you sit be at least... 12 different people, in the day. at least. just try talking with one and getting along. eventually, either your friends will come back to you, or at least you'll have other friends. i got both and was very popular in the end. sadly, i moved shortly after that year, so it was a short-lived glory.
anyways, make new friends. no matter how long you've known them, if they were ever TRUE friends, they wouldn't be leaving lyou.
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Posted: Tue Dec 23, 2008 5:23 pm
I'm probably too late, but just in case...
When you find some loyal friends, don't get angry. It doesn't matter what the hell people SAY to you. Just let it go in one ear, out the other. Seriously, don't let it phase you. Your actual friends were probably fed some bs about you when you weren't there, and that's why they left. Show your friends that what the jerks say doesn't bother you, and that you're just gonna keep on living. If you absolutely have to, go ahead and punch something. It won't help, but short-term, maybe. I've hit people for being jerks before, but little things that can also be interpreted as just messin around.
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Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 11:33 am
well, this is my advice:
I'd say to get into a fight with him if he bullies you again, but wait for him to punch you first so he gets more of the blame.
I was bullied at times when I was young and got annoyed by their bullying.
So, I had a fight with a girl. In the end, I won. Then they didn't bother me again. The girl was embarassed from losing to me that the next day she wasn't at school (also because she had scars and bruises on herself).
Then no one started to bully me anymore cuz they know they'll get beaten up. So, the moral of the story is: if you want something to be ended, then face it.
I'm serious when I say this. Hope this helps you!
P.S. The only way you'll gain respect is if you beat than guy in a fight. Just don't fight any random person OKAY? That just gets you in a bad situation and you'll have a nickname everyone will call you. The more you scare ppl, the less friends you will get. So just be nice and friendly and ONLY do something when you know you have to end something serious in your life.
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Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:26 pm
hikari megumi 15 well, this is my advice: I'd say to get into a fight with him if he bullies you again, but wait for him to punch you first so he gets more of the blame. I was bullied at times when I was young and got annoyed by their bullying. So, I had a fight with a girl. In the end, I won. Then they didn't bother me again. The girl was embarassed from losing to me that the next day she wasn't at school (also because she had scars and bruises on herself). Then no one started to bully me anymore cuz they know they'll get beaten up. So, the moral of the story is: if you want something to be ended, then face it.I'm serious when I say this. Hope this helps you! P.S. The only way you'll gain respect is if you beat than guy in a fight. Just don't fight any random person OKAY? That just gets you in a bad situation and you'll have a nickname everyone will call you. The more you scare ppl, the less friends you will get. So just be nice and friendly and ONLY do something when you know you have to end something serious in your life. i disagree. fighting is not the answer to your problems. first, there's no garuntee you'll win. second, if you do win, the loser may tell a teacher (something you should be doing) and then it's your word against theirs on who started it and why. the consequences for fighting in school where i live are pretty steep (i don't know about where you are though) not to mention the legal repercussions. fighting isn't a smart choice.
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Posted: Sun Jan 11, 2009 5:27 pm
hikari megumi 15 well, this is my advice: I'd say to get into a fight with him if he bullies you again, but wait for him to punch you first so he gets more of the blame. I was bullied at times when I was young and got annoyed by their bullying. So, I had a fight with a girl. In the end, I won. Then they didn't bother me again. The girl was embarassed from losing to me that the next day she wasn't at school (also because she had scars and bruises on herself). Then no one started to bully me anymore cuz they know they'll get beaten up. So, the moral of the story is: if you want something to be ended, then face it.I'm serious when I say this. Hope this helps you! P.S. The only way you'll gain respect is if you beat than guy in a fight. Just don't fight any random person OKAY? That just gets you in a bad situation and you'll have a nickname everyone will call you. The more you scare ppl, the less friends you will get. So just be nice and friendly and ONLY do something when you know you have to end something serious in your life. i disagree. fighting is not the answer to your problems. first, there's no garuntee you'll win. second, if you do win, the loser may tell a teacher (something you should be doing) and then it's your word against theirs on who started it and why. the consequences for fighting in school where i live are pretty steep (i don't know about where you are though) not to mention the legal repercussions. fighting isn't a smart choice.
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Posted: Mon Jan 19, 2009 10:57 am
I was in almost this EXACT situation when I was a high-school freshman. We were all good friends (or so I thought), and then just one day, out of the blue, like a strike of lightning, it all changed. They became douches, they took my things, grabbed my glasses, hid my stuff, and I couldn't do a thing about it. Hell, the same thing even happened my freshman year in college. Except they were all women *cough* yeah right *cough* and I could do nothing about it. When I grabbed one girls arm to stop her, she yelled out "RAPE!" Ok, so one black guy, 4 asian and white girls, and it's dark outside? Yeah, doesn't look so good. Needless to say I learned from all of that ridiculousness.
I know that I kinda went off on a tangent, but I do want to tell you this. As you get older, you learn more about yourself. You also learn more about what you like and don't like, and what you want and don't want in your life. In high school (I assume that's what you're in. Correct me if I'm wrong), life can be such a popularity contest, but the moment you graduate, nobody cares anymore. Nobody cares who was the most popular, nobody cares who prom queen was. That stuff's all over.
What I'm trying to get you to realize is that your friends are retards, and hanging around them any longer is going to do nothing but restrain you from what better relationships you could be having. As much as I love punching things, like Gerbil_of_the_Vashness said, violence isn't gonna solve anything. Sure, you feel satisfied for a bit, but then you have to face the consequences for those actions.
I'll say it one more time: The moment you "graduate" from that group and move on in your life, you won't even care about them anymore. Trust me on this, dude. I'm only 19, and I've already seen this to be true. biggrin
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