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 Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 4:56 pm
OK so I have this "Friend". I have known him since like I was 5 but We stopped talking for a year and a half because I moved. I just found him on MySpace a couple weeks ago and we talk like everynight. Well one night I introduced him to my "Best Friend" from CG over the phone. We all started talking. I ended up braking up with him beasue I felt like i liked him as a friend not a boyfriend.....He stopped talking to me for a week then I found out that he has been talking to Cait(the one over the phone) everyday. I talked to her sister an hour ago because Levi(the guy) is pissed at me for "Cheating on him" when I didnt. She said that he was at their house and Cait has been telling him a bunch of lies about me. He wont talk to me until "I tell him the truth". They are supposed to be my best friends but yet I have lost them both.
Now they are going out and he wont talk to me and she is telling lies about me. He lives, like, 100 miles away from us.....I really dont know what to do.....HELP!
I take the depressed part back...I am more like furious!
((Yes I know its confusing....))
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 8:04 pm
As cruel as it may sound Brit, you can go both ways with this.
One you can try to talk to your friend, (Cait) since you can just walk up to her and talk some sense into her for telling lies about you, plus you don't love him as a bf, just as a friend, so she shouldn't have any problems.....but from the looks of things she is willing to lie just to have him all to herself, hence she knows that if she tells the truth, he will continue liking you. whee sweatdrop
Option number 2, you can just ignore them both and move on with your life, I mean, if one friend was cruel enough to lie her way into his life and put you down in the process, I wouldn't call that a friend, and the other (the guy that likes you) was willing to believe all those lies and not give you a change, he is not worthy of being friends with you. So they are not worthy of being friends or any part of your life if they were not willing to believe you, after all, that was some stunt by your friend cait, but yeah, I wouldn't want to have her as a friend, just used you to get someone who liked you, but you didn't like.....ouch yeah.....Brit *huggles* down let those two bring you down, after all, you are much stronger than that and better deserving, am I right? blaugh 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Sep 20, 2008 11:12 pm
Thanks! You Rock! I would choose number 2 but we talked it out and we are friends now. I am really happy....and HYPER LOL!!!!!!
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Posted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 5:09 pm
Well, talking it out or not that was still rather rotten of them. But, in home boys self defense, I can understand if he wanted to get some distance from you. I've had people say to me what you said to him about rather being friends that boyfriend and girlfriend, and as good a relationship as that can be, it still cuts me up inside hearing it a bit.
But no matter, if he really loved you any way then he would of accepted and kept talking to you on a regular basis. Rather than not hanging out all together.
Glad you guys could work it out though. I think civility is highly commendable. I've seen people lose their civility over the most petty things and it is not pretty.
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Posted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 7:41 pm
Well Brit, that's good to hear, and Trist, I forgot to add the viewpoints from the the other side, I feel bad now, I think I will make a great lawyer for the defendant, but not the prosecutor, eerr, the other way around maybe. xd lol
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Posted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 10:17 pm
No need to feel bad. You know me, ever the devils advocate.
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Posted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 10:30 pm
true, but I must learn to advocate both sides, rather than one, that's what makes us more round minded than flat. xd 3nodding
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Posted: Sun Sep 21, 2008 11:51 pm
Oh yes, every gem has many facets. To admire only one cut is to ignore the whole and exceedingly beautiful gem.
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Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 11:21 am
couldn't have put it better any other way. cool
so now, time to become either um.....right or left minded.....I forget what controls what. xd whee
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 12:31 am
I don't remember either and I don't rightly care. I do whatever feels right to me and my brain will work it out on it's own wether I know or not.
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 1:16 pm
haha, kinda reminds me of either you brain in control, or someone else, I'm sure you have wondered that plenty of times, right? whee
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 3:13 pm
Sorta. I know that my brain isn't in control and I certainly know someone else is not in control. I personally think that it's a mixture of mind, body and spirit. I'm just trying to keep them all in balance and united together. Wiccans call that the wizards triangle.
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 5:16 pm
well that's good to know, I have, how should I say.....spirit in my mind....each share their portion, all unite to function, but they act independently. 3nodding
well balances tend to be tipped, unless you have barries that prevent them from tipping. cool
Wiccans, don't know what they are, but triangles, all good and bad at the same time. whee
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 6:58 pm
I don't know. I don't think you need barriers to keep balance. I just think you need to know what's relevant to you, rather than blocking what you think will unbalance. Just find relevance, and if there is no relevance the it won't matter and you can't be unbalanced.
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Posted: Tue Sep 23, 2008 10:38 pm
True.....but.....what if you can't be sure.....after all....things tend to come from unexpected places. 3nodding
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