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 Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:38 am
ok, well, im new here, YAY! but i have a problem that aint so new. me and my current girlfriend of four years have hit a snag, and i want to leave her, how ever, in the past i have and she's attempted suicide, and she just keeps threatening to do so, and i havent the faintest idea on what to do. if i stay ill lose my mind, and it might turn into a murder suicide, if i go, she'll kill herself. some one please help me!
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 9:23 pm
dude , i used to hve the same problem .
wht i did was tht i explained to her why
was i leaving her && hw she should just move
on . the next thing i know , she found a new
boyfriend already . haha . so i think
u should slowly leave her && when u see
tht she's independent enough to tke care
of herself , then leave her but just
keep an eye fr her . if she seems depressed
or smething , be there fr her .
helped this helped : )
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 9:46 pm
Tell someone you trust about your situation. An adult you trust is probably a good option.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 10:13 pm
one of my best friends is going through the same thing, only he cheated on her before threatening to kill himself if she left him. apparently they "fixed" things and are still together, but unfortunately i have no idea why.
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:39 pm
Introdce her to knew friends and new support system so she will feel she has someone to talk to when you are not around.
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Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 6:46 pm
Leave her and if she kills herself, that sux for her...but i doubt she will...
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Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 3:45 am
Majic Ninja Leave her and if she kills herself, that sux for her...but i doubt she will... I think you should allways leave poeple when you know they can mange on thier own, it is better for the karma, and you never know when you are going to need someone...
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Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 6:29 pm
I agree your going to have to bring a third person into this. You can't deal with this on your own. I think it's disgustingly selfish of her to keep you with her by doing something like that. Tell someone and im sure you will be fine.
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Posted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 6:21 pm
Wow.
I am completely USELESS.
I'm usually good with these suicide situations, but something like this...
I believe a group therapy could help.
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Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 9:23 pm
shani26 Majic Ninja Leave her and if she kills herself, that sux for her...but i doubt she will... I think you should allways leave poeple when you know they can mange on thier own, it is better for the karma, and you never know when you are going to need someone... most ppl that tell others that they're going to commit suicide never do, its those who dont say anything that do.
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Posted: Sat Sep 13, 2008 10:09 pm
Tell her to get over herself.
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