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 Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:36 pm
Me and my ex (Jacob) dated for a year and half (straight. Not a single breakup) and at the beginning this girl tried to steal him from me..well he wouldn't break up with me for her so she finally gave up..I cheated on him once and he cheated on me once with people over the internet (cybering). Well his mother hated me..my family hated him..He dumped me about six-eight months back..Well it destroyed me..I cried and cried and screamed until my throat wouldn't let me say a word. The next day he wanted me back and I was too hurt to take him back. Well sense then he's been trying to get back with me..kissing me..loving on my..hugging me..first he's not 'seriously' dating this girl. Well I feel like a slut. And he lies to me by not telling me about her in the first place..then a few weeks later, he lies to me again by not tell me this girl that I UTTERLY AND TRULY HATE. (the girl that tried to steal him from me) asked him out and he tells me he told her 'he'd think about it.' turns out he agreed..and I told him I hope she's worth it because he lost me.. and its ripping me up inside because I really mean it..me and him will never be together again..I have no Idea how to guard myself from him hurting me again..
Some one help?
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:32 pm
The best I can give you is to stay away from him for a while. Don't answer his phone calls, emails, IMs, whatever. If you see him in person and can't get out of talking to him then just be cold. Don't give him anything to use against you and don't give him a reason to stay near you.
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:40 pm
Thank you..
It just makes me hurt even worse when she flaunts him around on her arm..-sigh-
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:46 pm
Don't even look in their general direction... at least not until you get some eye-candy of your own. blaugh
I'll pray for you. I know that relationship stuff can hurt a lot and that it's one of the worst kinds of hurts. You'll make it through.
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Posted: Fri Aug 29, 2008 1:52 am
I think you deserve a better guy, and there are lots of them. try to open your mind to new guys. go out there and date!
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Posted: Sat Aug 30, 2008 2:52 am
shani's right . there
are many other nice guys out there.
i guess u just werent made fr him .
u should avoid him in every way &&
if u meet him in person , just give
him a cold stare && a slap &&
a kick at his 'wand'
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Posted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 6:35 pm
The more you seem bothered by it the more she will do it. If you ignore and act as if she's invisible she will eventually stop.
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