|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
 Posted: Wed Aug 27, 2008 11:32 pm
shes gone...my sister ran away..or was kidnapped..we dont know. Im so worried...I got her mad..the last thing she said was I hate you a*****e...
I need to cry...im so weak..
Its my fault...
|
 |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:14 am
Oh my god thats horrible. O.O
Please tell me your parents have filed a missing persons report to the police?
Its important that they start looking for her as soon as possible.
If she was really kidnapped, they need to find her before she gets hurt.
And if she ran away... Well, it wouldn't hurt to find her and bring her home.
gonk
Its not your fault. You can't blame yourself for things like this.
You had no control in her disappearance.
Sure, it is a shame that that is the last thing you said to her. But how could you have known? I say things like that to my family all the time, and so do many other people. Fighting is part of family life.
You just had a fight at an inconvenient time.
There is no way you could have known at the time that she was going to disappear.
And obviously you didn't mean it completely.
Its okay to cry, and to make mistakes.
I hope she comes home soon.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:59 pm
I hope she comes home soon. =/
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:19 pm
Johables I hope she comes home soon. =/
Agreed.
And I agree with Intro.
She said everything I was going to say.
KILL. REPEAT.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:24 pm
*Hugs* Hunni its not your fault.
I'm guessing your sister is a teenager? If so then there is more chance that she ran away, which I know sounds bad, but its better than kidnapped. Sometimes things are more complicated then the first appear, I doubt very much that it was your arguement that made her leave, but probably a lot of things, you need to be strong, because no matter how things are between the two of you, she needs you and she needs you to be strong. The thing about familes is that they argue but they are there when you need them. She doesn't hate you, she was just mad at you.
Have you called her friends to see if they have heard from her, also try contacting her school and see if they can provide any help. The police should be alerted as they may help. Other then that keep your eyes out, check out local parks etc etc anywhere where she might go. Mabye get her photo and takes it to shops where she might go for food etc etc.
loves
iFairy
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 4:13 pm
Well, let's see. I'm going with the presumption that she ran away, since I can help with that.
1) Call her friends. Then call the school to see if there are more friends she doesn't tell you about. It helps to contact every teacher she has, especially if she only wants to get out of the house, and doesn't have a set place to go.
2) Figure out where you are. If she wanted to get out of state/city, look in the quickest direction out of there. I.e, If you live on the west side, go west. If on the northeast, check both directions.
Those are pretty much based on previous experiences. I think there's a program called the "Amber alert" too, so you should check that out.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 4:27 pm
Ok we found her. She ran away To Ashland (like 3 hours away). I got grounded for her leaving, so I wont be online much for the next 1-3 weeks, im starting school anyway.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:08 pm
MATE. FEED.
They blame you for HER actions?
KILL. REPEAT.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 5:54 pm
Without this sounding cruel, they should punish her not you. I mean she ran away... she caused people to worry and to be scared. It sounds more like attention seeking because you two crossed words. Your parents are wrong for punishing you, you have done nothing wrong... we're all here for should you need us.
loves
iFairy
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:41 pm
not everything can be your fault, me i was in a deep depression, a while back and i made it through, with your sis, just try to find her as soo as you can, and when you see her just hug her and tell her you love her. i've ran away b4 and eveyone will miss you more than you miss them.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:04 pm
My parents said I should have went and tried harder to find her >>
I guess I should have, I only looked for a couple hours. And im only in trouble for like 1-3 weeks *nods* not very long 3nodding
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 7:15 pm
You done your best and thats what counts, your parents are probably really stressed over it all and have a whole mixture of emotions anger, worry, joy, guilt, sadness and so on and the probably don't want to show any other than joy to your sister now she is home safe, so they are taking it out on you. As long as you know that none of it is your fault, none of it.
loves
iFairy
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Aug 29, 2008 4:20 pm
Fairy's right. Listen to her.
Let your parents go through the shock and everything, and talk to your sister every once in a while. If you don't at least speak to her, she'll have even more guilt on her shoulders.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Fri Aug 29, 2008 7:26 pm
I'm happy your sister is alright.
@_@ *Was really worried*
About your parents, thats not right. But, hey. They are humans too.
And its only for a little while.
Try to use your time off the internet for paying attention to your sister, and school.
I'll miss you in the mean time.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Posted: Sun Sep 07, 2008 8:36 pm
I'm STILL grounded. My mom has uped the groundation date to 1-2 months -,-
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Reply
