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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 4:36 pm
I had this idea since relay for life last year. Some of the boys shaved their heads. I thought about growing out my hair, and it is almost long enough to donate. biggrin I want to donate in April for cancer patients to make wigs out of (or the next relay for life). I just want to take this idea a step further.
I want to shave my head. I pretty sure my mom would think it is insane, but I am trying to bring light to an issue. For guys, it isn't as big of a problem if they go bald, but for girls, well, it is a whole another thing. Most of the scarves/wigs are for women, and for good reason. A lot of girls would go crazy (admit it...you would too) when they lose their hair, if you know what I mean.
Of course, I don't want to go around with a bald head. I want to cover it, but I think I'll have issues with school policy. I can't get a wig, even an artifical one, because those cost serious money.
Part of it is my personal belief too. I think it would be better to start out for a cause (and make a difference in someone's life). I am Christian, and I recall some bible verse calling woman to cover their heads. It does make sense to me personally. Can anyone find that bible verse? (because most of the Christian community has forgotten its existance).
Yeah...please help me.
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:03 am
Christian Women's Hair CoveringHere's the passage you're looking for. It's in 1 Corinthians, chapter 11, of the Christian Testament. The first 16 verses are the ones relevant to your question. 1 Cor 11:5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head uncovered dishonoureth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.Lack of a cap/scarf/hat/snood is identical, according to the Christian Testament, to being bald. If you're NOT wearing a covering, this text requires you to shave your head! (Though, if you're covered, no one will ever know if you've shaved your head, so you might as well save some money on styling products, yeah?) Compare: 1 Thessalonians 5:17 Pray without ceasing. In other words, since you're always praying, you should be always covered. Jewish Women's Hair CoveringThere's also something relevant to this in the Hebrew Bible and in Jewish law. Women who are or have been married (widows and divorcees) are required to cover their hair. A woman who has never been married does not have to. Here's the proof text for this. Read the first full 18 verses, but especially verse 18. The Talmud in K'tubot 72a states that the source for this prohibition is from BaMidbar (Numbers) 5:18 which deals with the laws of a sotah - a suspected adulteress - and states, "The priest shall stand the woman before God and uncover her hair...". Rash'i (Rabbi Shlomo Yitchaki, 1040-1105, author of the primary commentary on the Talmud) provides two explanations for the Talmud's conclusion, one, that from the fact that she is punished midah kneged midah (measure for measure) for exposing her hair to her paramour we see that this is prohibited and, two, from the fact that we expose her hair we see that under normal conditions a Jewish woman's hair should be covered. (I included the Jewish part just to make the compare/contrast easier to follow.)
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Posted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:59 pm
Yeah, I'll do it for personal reasons, but my school does not allow that. Somehow, they get a gang symbol out of covering your head with a hat or scarf. Yeah...they don't seem to get some people do it for themselves. That is the public school system for you.
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Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:23 am
Wow! That sounds very generous of you. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Nov 06, 2008 8:27 am
If your school forbids wearing a hat or a scarf, they must not have a lot of Muslim, Jewish, or observant Christian students. If you feel you should cover your hair, and you have religious reasons, no public school in the US is permitted to stop you from doing so.
Just make darned sure that you feel a personal conviction about obeying this commandment, as well as other commandments that may not be a part of your life yet. If you cover your hair with a scarf or hat as a habit, and if your school tells you no, you may be called to the principal's office. If that happens, your choices will be to uncover after all, or to make a stand about it. It may all blow over, but if it doesn't, you may get the news media interested, or the school board. It could be a big distraction from academics, as well as something that singles you out socially. Plus, once you go on record as holding a particular religious stance (on record, meaning, in the news), it's hard to ever go back on it. If you later feel that head covering is not for you, for any reason, you'll be seen as wishy-washy by those who remember the fuss you (theoretically) caused about head covering in school.
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 4:38 am
These are all great points Divash brings up that should always be at the back of our minds when doing anything that might be considered out-of-the-ordinary.
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Posted: Sat Nov 08, 2008 9:09 pm
Yeah, we have a grand total of one person covering her hair and she is a Muslim. Wait...there is that one Jewish kid that is a guy. Make that two. Two people in a school of more than two thousand. I don't know either of them.
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Posted: Mon Nov 10, 2008 6:57 am
That might be a good place to start, actually. Go talk to the Muslimah and the Jew and ask how they got the administration to accept their head coverings. Ask them to meet with you at lunch or something, and get all three of you talking together. Ask if they have coreligionists who might wish to form a club, or at least an informal gathering once in a while.
Also speak to your fellow Christians concerning head covering. Ask each one whether they would cover if the school permitted it, and how they would cover -- hat, cap, scarf, snood, hood? Hair partially or completely covered? Boys and girls, or only girls? -- and write down everything. Then go to the administration and just ask, "Some of us would like to cover our heads/hair for religious reasons, but we don't want it to become a huge controversy. Could you recommend a style that you would permit at school, whether someone was religious or not, that has no gang symbolism attached? We know that red or blue bandanas might send a message that isn't the one we would intend. What other gang signs should we avoid, that we don't really know about ourselves, while still being able to honor our personal convictions, and not start a controversy with other students wanting to cover, too?"
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Posted: Tue Nov 11, 2008 4:45 pm
Um, I have one Christian friend (all the rest don't believe in God). Wait, I know one person that is a Wiccan, but she won't help me. Those two are not in my class, and I am not sure if they are in my grade. Talking to them is near impossible. I'm cut off from the world in my honors classes. I just love the people in my honors classes, somehow, almost all the guys want to kill the Muslims and the homosexuals at the same time. Half the girls want to kill the Muslims, and 25% think Obama is a terrorist. This leads to fun conversations with me against the entire class. *I am scared, I am really scared.* A headcovering would be taken automatically as I am a Muslim, which means I am open game. Fun. The only class I could hide in is Debate, because the people are awesome.
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Posted: Wed Nov 12, 2008 7:40 am
If you don't want to be mistaken for Muslim, either for your own safety or in order that you should not be thought of as mocking Islam, just leave your neck and ears uncovered. Muslim scriptures specify that a woman's face, hands, and feet may be uncovered, but all the rest should be covered, including the neck and ears.
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 5:59 pm
I might try it, and I have to get a couple of hats, no, I won't strech the school that much, maybe scarves to wear.
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Posted: Sun Nov 08, 2009 10:00 am
I really love the idea, I am really curious to know what happend, and also want to know where do you live(I mean which Country).
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Posted: Wed Jan 13, 2010 6:34 pm
we mennonites believe that a woman's hair is her god given glory
and is reserved for the one she truly loves.
so i/we feel it would be a shame to shave that off.
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Posted: Wed Mar 31, 2010 1:40 pm
But because a woman's hair is such a gift and so important, such a sacrifice would be extremely pleasing to God, no? It teaches humility and simultaneously puts others needs before hers (like donating her hair to cancer patients).
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Posted: Sat Apr 17, 2010 9:58 pm
i see nothing wrong with making a personal fashion statement with your hair style
but if you are considering cultural traditions, it seems to me that most of them (including my mennonites) give high value and honor to a woman's hair.
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