I can describe my relationship as a soap opera that turned into a fairytale.
We've been best friends for years, and at the beginning of our sophomore year he started dating a complete b***h. He knew she was a b***h, he said no to her countless times, but eventually he got sick of her asking and went with it. Her friends and brother were really hard into the drug scene, and got him really heavily involved in some bad s**t. He became addicted to opiates and kept her around so he could get them from her friends. Throughout this entire thing, we were still best friends, and she completely hated the fact that I existed because though she was the girlfriend by title I always came first, and she knew he actually had feelings for me, and was using her for her drug connections. His relationship with her practically ripped my heart out.
I became really scared for him, since I knew he was to the point where he didn't care about his own life anymore, so I asked him to cut back. He told me to give him a reason to stop and I confessed my feelings for him. Within the next week we got much closer, and he dumped her. It took a week because instead of hanging out with her, or contacting her, he hung out with me.
Fast forward through almost 2 years of stalker-like behavior from her, losing a bunch of friends because they didn't like us being together, and countless firsts for both of us.
We've been together for 2 years and 4 months, and we're half-way living together right now, we have an apartment and we're officially moving out of our parent's houses for good tomorrow. We rarely fight, we get along really well, and in my mind it's the perfect relationship. We're best friends who are also lovers.
Sorry for the wall of text. I should write a book about this. xD
We've been best friends for years, and at the beginning of our sophomore year he started dating a complete b***h. He knew she was a b***h, he said no to her countless times, but eventually he got sick of her asking and went with it. Her friends and brother were really hard into the drug scene, and got him really heavily involved in some bad s**t. He became addicted to opiates and kept her around so he could get them from her friends. Throughout this entire thing, we were still best friends, and she completely hated the fact that I existed because though she was the girlfriend by title I always came first, and she knew he actually had feelings for me, and was using her for her drug connections. His relationship with her practically ripped my heart out.
I became really scared for him, since I knew he was to the point where he didn't care about his own life anymore, so I asked him to cut back. He told me to give him a reason to stop and I confessed my feelings for him. Within the next week we got much closer, and he dumped her. It took a week because instead of hanging out with her, or contacting her, he hung out with me.
Fast forward through almost 2 years of stalker-like behavior from her, losing a bunch of friends because they didn't like us being together, and countless firsts for both of us.
We've been together for 2 years and 4 months, and we're half-way living together right now, we have an apartment and we're officially moving out of our parent's houses for good tomorrow. We rarely fight, we get along really well, and in my mind it's the perfect relationship. We're best friends who are also lovers.
Sorry for the wall of text. I should write a book about this. xD
