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 Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 7:18 am
So I finally left Dane after about two and a half years of emotional abuse and bullshit. If not for Evelyn, I would not be taking anything good away from this relationship. I'm so glad I have her, and my only regrets are that I didn't leave him before she was born, and that I gave her his last name. I might change it.
As it is, the only time he shows her love and affection is when his family and friends are looking. He shows off how good of a father he is, and as soon as nobody is watching him he doesn't even look at her. He was leaving her in dirty diapers for hours and propping her in front of the TV so he could play video games.
Now he gets her on sundays and tuesday nights, but I really wish he wanted nothing to do with her. I feel it would be easier on her in the long run if she had no father, than if she had one that treated her like she was worthless. I'm still recovering from how worthless he made me feel, but I was just his girlfriend. If he continues to treat her like he does, she might not recover so well.
God, I hate him.
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Posted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 7:30 am
Awww Kat! I feel for you dearie! I used to have a similar problem, but Alice is so mobile now....She inches along on the furniture so much faster now >.< We let run loose so to say now. We cover the stairs so she can't crawl up them lol
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Posted: Mon Sep 22, 2008 11:35 am
It's great you got out of the relationship. It took me several months to do so from my last with Kyra's dad, after he cheated on me. There was no emotional involvement, between me and him and I suppose between him and Kyra. However since I moved out he has stepped up to the plate as a proper doting father, I wish other men would do the same.
Dane needs help. And so does Evelyn. Because if that's how he always is that's not right nor fair on her. Does she ever come home still in dirty diapers or that? Perhaps taking photographic proof would be an idea. He wants to make himself look good in front of his family and anyone else watching, nothing more. Prove he's not as much of a doting father as he makes himself out to be around company and you may get your wish. That, or he gets the kick in the balls from others he damn well needs.
That's a beautiful little girl there, and he's ruining her, as well as losing the most precious time he will ever get.
Good luck to you hun, I wish you all the best.
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Posted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 11:37 pm
Is all that we see or seem... I agree completely with Kyra. Just get some proof. If needed file for full custody. Have you also filled for child support? Bleed his wallets dry, lol! Sorry i know this isn't a joking matter but if he can't at least support his daughter emotionally he better do it financially. He helped make her so he needs to deal with that. And there are many children out there who are raised without their ftaher and turn out wonderful. I'm a special case, I guess. I was raised by my grandparents while my "father" still lived with them. He has been nothing to me my whole life other than a sperm donor. Anyways congratulations on leaving him! May you and your daughter have a better life! Or at least a less stressful one.
BTW Kyra, OMG! I didn't know you left your daughter's father!! That just shows how long it's been since I've been on here, huh? Well good for you too, hun! I remember you complaining about him. So you totally need to tell me what this new guy's like! ...but a dream within a dream?
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