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 Posted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 2:00 pm
sunday my boyfriend is leaving for San Diego, for the marines boot camp and he won't be back until around november... and i can't stop crying.... and i don't usually cry this bad.... but i have been crying for about 3 hours straight and we will not have any contact except for writing but he said he might not write because he doesn't want it to hurt even worse.. but it would hurt worse i think.... and i love him so much but i don't want him to go... is that considered selfish or is cause i really love him.... i believe in him and want him to be happy but i don't know how to deal with him being gone and us not talking over the phone or emailing cause well his hand writing is horrible i think or monkey could do better but still i don't know and we might go see a movie and he cares about how i feel but won't stay even if i bug him bad enough he wants to go so i know this means a lot to him but being with him and talking to him means a lot to me....... am i just being selfish or what.....???? please please help me
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 5:49 pm
Let him go to the camp. I know it may seem hard to let go of him for so long and not even talk to him. Cherish the times you have had with him and still write letters to him even though he can't show him that you support his choices.
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Posted: Sun Aug 24, 2008 9:48 pm
and how do i deal with most likely being pregnant
and he just wants an abortion even though i want that but i don't want that at the same time
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Posted: Mon Aug 25, 2008 10:14 am
Well I don't know what to say from here think it through carefully and decide that's the best I can do for you. I'm sorry.
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Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 3:32 pm
my opinion, he wanted to f*** you and leave you
thats what it sounds like
i might be wrong, but i know many guys who are as girls say "sweet and charming, and always good to me" and just use that charisma to get into the girls pants
and i think being pregnant scared him and is why he doesnt want to write you
he wanted the milk without buying the cow
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Posted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 11:15 pm
I agree with ice but i also think you should remember that Sex is a two way think you could have told him to go away or get lost but you didnt i think you should both have to deal with the consiquences.
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Posted: Sun Feb 01, 2009 6:42 pm
God_of_chaoswind I agree with ice but i also think you should remember that Sex is a two way think you could have told him to go away or get lost but you didnt i think you should both have to deal with the consiquences. for the first time ever i acually agree with him =/
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