Welcome to Gaia! ::

I've noticed that post the influx of n00bs here, it's become pretty quiet. So here's something to discuss as school begins.

Rules.
1). Vulgar language is allowed, but keep it down.
2). Don't be embarassed to use a certain term or to speak of something in particular; this is the INTERNET.
3). Whatever's happened in your sexual life is your's, and I will not push you to speak/type of it;; anyone who does so will get my wrath.

Now, for myself: I've pretty much earned the title as most perverted Guild Angel, and bear such in an oddly proud way. To spill myself, for I don't really care ...

I lost my virginity to my math T.A./guyfriend a week after I turned sixteen; I've done things with girls but no sex; and my relationship [one year, one month strong] began when we cheated on our partners five times while I was with my best friend in another state.

And we are akin to rabbits.

I think that fifteen-year-olds and younger having sexual relations is beyond disgusting and wrong, enjoying biting/scratching/bleeding from such, but, surprisingly, bondage frightens me.

I believe that there is a certain sacredness to the act, as well as undoubtable need for pleasure- it's bonding experience, even. It helps with being comfortable with who you love or ... Whatever.

That's all I feel is needed to say, haha.
And to the mods: I've been told to put my Topics in Extended before, but I never know if they're going to take off or not or I would. ;~;

If this is overly inappropriate, then feel free to delete. (:

I would challenge you for the title of most perverted, but not really sure thats a title i would really like people knowing me by, lol.

I was seventeen when I started, and by all accounts it sucked, I mean not literally, on an oral way, I mean, it was really bad, to the point of being something i wouldnt be overly interested in, but after changing from my first to my second partner everything changed, I mean, IT IS THE BEST THING EVER :p (please dont argue this point, i am sure that having kids, falling in love and a bunch of stuff is cool, but just this time dont mess with my point:p )

Ive been involved with at least a dozen partners, and had a one night stand just once.

I had try a little sado, the point is that the older you grow the more significance it aqcuires, until i was 23 I really didnt understood the psychological issues of what sado really stood for, the sheer idea of submitting someone to your will only becomes a turn on when you have gained the understanding of what it is that makes people do whatever you want to, a little like the pride of seduction, but on a whole different level, its not about actually hurting them, its about knowing you can hurt them if you want, and going a bit overboard, but of course some gain this insight earlier, some never do.
Obviously you have to be quite the observer, the real good people on this are not the inconsiderate who just like to inflict pain, but rather the ones wishing to step up just a notch the limits of a person, its not about excruciating pain, its about going to ones limit, and a peg more.
and one needs to go little by little, I mean, if you squeeze a n****e pretty hard when you are just on the foreplay, most likely you will hurt the partner, and will be a major turn off, but if you do it just a little before the orgasm, you can even throw a girl into an orgasm by doing so, but after the orgasm, most ladies are over sensitive, so a hard squeeze will earn you a punch, lol.

mmm, I could go on and on, but th eidea is to hear what others say too, so i will save a lot for further into the discusion :p

I respect that a lot, Clem. (:

Ives: My first lover, the guyfriend, left me in a heartbeat and I had to sneak out of his house when his father cam home. I was in a lot of pain ... And realized the emotional ties.

If you can't ******** it, kill it.

I'm not that affectionate of a person. I have my needs, I sedate those needs.

smile

My boyfriend and I are very violent, to say the least.

So long as you're both consenting and respect one another it's all good. I support the long term, the one night stand and everything in-between.

14 makes you uncomfortable? I've known 11 years olds who have already ********>

@ Ives :: Mmhm.


@ Nyz :: I don't think there should be an age limit, or an accepted age. Different people mature at different speeds. Just because you're fourteen doesn't mean you not ready for sex, and just because you're eighteen doesn't mean you are. I've known adults who are more irresponsible about sex than teenagers, so I figure if you think you're old enough to have sex, go ahead.

I guess its one of those cases in whih if you think you are ready, that means you are not, and if you think you are not ready, then you still arent :p
I believe that noone may acurately say whether they are ready or not, but it is at least somewhat of a marker if you are at least taking precautions, so many people just dont care... also, a great way to know how ready you are is to know what will you do in case you do get someone pregnant, if you are ready to take that responsability, then you are one step closer to being ready, though Nyzz point usually outwheighs most, peer pressure, raging hormones and other external factors can easily cave in even the strongest of wills.

Funny how one topic Pink designed more to be interesting and open about HOW people live their intimacy got turned into when it is right or not to have sex :p

To all of you out there having, enjoy, to those who arent, we salute you for your oatience, its all about the attitude, you gotta believe! (no more late stay ups playing that wretched parappa... now I will be positive attitude'd the whole day)