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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 12:05 am


I haven’t posted in forever; please don’t hold it against me as I come to you for help. Well not for myself but for my boyfriend.

He gets sick around the full moon. It affects his sleep and makes him ill. I worry about him. He says as long as he can remember its happened. He also has a long line of pshyics in his family and is an empath. Than the more I talked to him I found he has an affinity for earth… my research has chalked up to nothing. I’m curious if anyone has heard of this happening?

One of my friends suggested the changing of tides and if I remember correctly tide is highest at the full moon. So I'm worrying if thats it. And if it is is their a way to help him or relieve him of the pain.
PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 6:24 pm


It's possible he may be more sensitive to the cycles of Luna. The moon affects the tide and the human menstrual cycle is 28 days, just like the lunar cycle.

Our bodies are something like 70% water and it's obvious that the moon affects our oceans. The word "lunatic" refers to the insanity the full moon can supposedly inflict on people.

It could just be an odd quirk.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 21, 2008 9:26 pm


Thats what my friend was thinking.

Yeah all my research so far has talked about how the moon affects people, since our bodies are 75% water and such.

It might be an odd quirk. But I was wondering since his element is based in earth if that could be affecting him more so than others?

And thank you Obscurus for replying.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 22, 2008 5:03 pm


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Thats what my friend was thinking.

Yeah all my research so far has talked about how the moon affects people, since our bodies are 75% water and such.

It might be an odd quirk. But I was wondering since his element is based in earth if that could be affecting him more so than others?

And thank you Obscurus for replying.


You're welcome.

Earth is often seen as a feminine element, as it nurtures and gives life. The Moon is seen as feminine as well because of the associations I've mentioned above.

As to how the moon would interplay with his Earth affinity, I have no idea. Maybe look up his astrology birthchart and see if that sheds any light on the situation?

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 28, 2008 6:14 am


Yeah... I've heard that before too!
PostPosted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 5:40 am


Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?

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PostPosted: Sun Aug 31, 2008 4:36 pm


Malevolent_Murder
Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.
PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 5:47 am


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Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.


Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.

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PostPosted: Mon Sep 01, 2008 4:50 pm


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Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.


Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.


I don't really see a problem with the earth affinity unless he's overly stubborn or materialistic.

The way I'd go about balancing the water influence is with fire. So maybe a gemstone or herb associated with fire. He might also try carrying or wearing a piece of iron or gold. Gold is associated with the sun and fire, and iron is associated with the fire element as well. Iron is also associated with the alchemical operation of Separation, which is an Air operation. Hence, iron may help counter raging emotion and maybe help balance any negative effects of the earth affinity.

Alchemy studies pay off, apparently. razz
PostPosted: Tue Sep 02, 2008 12:03 am


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Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.


Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.


I don't really see a problem with the earth affinity unless he's overly stubborn or materialistic.

The way I'd go about balancing the water influence is with fire. So maybe a gemstone or herb associated with fire. He might also try carrying or wearing a piece of iron or gold. Gold is associated with the sun and fire, and iron is associated with the fire element as well. Iron is also associated with the alchemical operation of Separation, which is an Air operation. Hence, iron may help counter raging emotion and maybe help balance any negative effects of the earth affinity.

Alchemy studies pay off, apparently. razz

He is a bit stubborn and matericalistic, but who isn't these days in this world?

Should he do this the whole time or only during the full moon when its at the worse?

And would it be okay if I combined a gemstone with the iron?

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PostPosted: Wed Sep 03, 2008 7:56 pm


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Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.


Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.


I don't really see a problem with the earth affinity unless he's overly stubborn or materialistic.

The way I'd go about balancing the water influence is with fire. So maybe a gemstone or herb associated with fire. He might also try carrying or wearing a piece of iron or gold. Gold is associated with the sun and fire, and iron is associated with the fire element as well. Iron is also associated with the alchemical operation of Separation, which is an Air operation. Hence, iron may help counter raging emotion and maybe help balance any negative effects of the earth affinity.

Alchemy studies pay off, apparently. razz

He is a bit stubborn and matericalistic, but who isn't these days in this world?

Should he do this the whole time or only during the full moon when its at the worse?

And would it be okay if I combined a gemstone with the iron?


All the time if he thinks it would help. And I don't see any reason why not to combine a gemstone with iron. Just make sure they're complimentary or neutral.
PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 3:59 am


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Thank you Obscurus you've been help. I couldn't find anything with his birthchart though. So I dunno.

Know of a way to maybe lessen the effects?


You might want to try balancing the water influence somehow. Is he an emotional person? This could be a clue as to the depth of the water affinity/influence.


Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.


I don't really see a problem with the earth affinity unless he's overly stubborn or materialistic.

The way I'd go about balancing the water influence is with fire. So maybe a gemstone or herb associated with fire. He might also try carrying or wearing a piece of iron or gold. Gold is associated with the sun and fire, and iron is associated with the fire element as well. Iron is also associated with the alchemical operation of Separation, which is an Air operation. Hence, iron may help counter raging emotion and maybe help balance any negative effects of the earth affinity.

Alchemy studies pay off, apparently. razz

He is a bit stubborn and matericalistic, but who isn't these days in this world?

Should he do this the whole time or only during the full moon when its at the worse?

And would it be okay if I combined a gemstone with the iron?


All the time if he thinks it would help. And I don't see any reason why not to combine a gemstone with iron. Just make sure they're complimentary or neutral.


I found some iron wire that I figured I could wrap around the gemstone and hang it from a necklance for him.

I dragged out my gemstone book and found these...
AGATE/TREE
COPPER
MAGNETITE
SUGILITE
TOURMALINE/WATERMELON (I think this is the best one)

any suggestions?

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 04, 2008 9:29 pm


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Oddly enough yes, very. Almost to he point of annoyance.

How would I go about balancing his water influence? and its a very strong affinity to earth.


I don't really see a problem with the earth affinity unless he's overly stubborn or materialistic.

The way I'd go about balancing the water influence is with fire. So maybe a gemstone or herb associated with fire. He might also try carrying or wearing a piece of iron or gold. Gold is associated with the sun and fire, and iron is associated with the fire element as well. Iron is also associated with the alchemical operation of Separation, which is an Air operation. Hence, iron may help counter raging emotion and maybe help balance any negative effects of the earth affinity.

Alchemy studies pay off, apparently. razz

He is a bit stubborn and matericalistic, but who isn't these days in this world?

Should he do this the whole time or only during the full moon when its at the worse?

And would it be okay if I combined a gemstone with the iron?


All the time if he thinks it would help. And I don't see any reason why not to combine a gemstone with iron. Just make sure they're complimentary or neutral.


I found some iron wire that I figured I could wrap around the gemstone and hang it from a necklance for him.

I dragged out my gemstone book and found these...
AGATE/TREE
COPPER
MAGNETITE
SUGILITE
TOURMALINE/WATERMELON (I think this is the best one)

any suggestions?


You might look into bloodstone. In general it's not a bad stone to have around and it's associated with fire. It's also considered a combination of opposites as well (because of the red/green contrast).
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