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 Posted: Mon Sep 26, 2005 9:25 pm
Blah blah, I'm new and all that rot, but I do actually have a discussion.
A-hem.
I admit, that at first glance, I look like a boy.
But I like it!
I have short hair, I wear baggy clothing, and my boobs are not that big.
Apparently, this labels me 'fat dyke'.
Which I find annoying to say the least.
So..
do males find feminene girls more attractive than tomboys?
I know there are guys out there that like tomboys, but I mean in general.
Does it bother you if a girl is boyish in looks?
(If this sounds really dumb, please excuse me, I'm not myself tonight)
.:sharpie:.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 4:48 am
Well, I'll give my view of this as a big girl who used to dress quite boyishly as well... I didn't get half the attention I get now that I dress more feminine. For me the transition came kind of naturally (and I still have moments where I like wearing my 'normal' clothes), but I do think a lot of men prefer a more feminine style of clothing... on women, of course.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 5:59 am
i never get attention no matter what i wear.
i used to be pretty tomboyish, and i guess i am in a lot of ways (i don't do my hair or makeup and i'm much more comfortable with guys thanwith girls), but i've become more feminine. i dunno why, i guess it has something to do with my boyfriend. i've also done a complete 180 with clothes, now i wear skirts all the time when before i hated them and always wore pants whenever i could.
i think guys on the whole prefer more "feminine" women, but there's so much variation in what people are attracted to that it's not worth generalizing like that.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 8:08 am
First of all, the whole "Fat dyke" thing just pisses me off. There's no need for people treating you like that.
As for the the Masuline/Femanine issue, I could care less about how someone dresses or looks. You seem like a nice girl and people should be respecting you for that. The question is "Do you like the way you look?"
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 8:22 am
sweatdrop because of my shape, even if i'm rarely mistaken for a boy.( i are pearshaped! NO man would have an a** this big!)
...except one winter when i wore my ginourmous parka, baggy man pants and a beanie to school. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 9:52 am
Zeta_240 First of all, the whole "Fat dyke" thing just pisses me off. There's no need for people treating you like that. As for the the Masuline/Femanine issue, I could care less about how someone dresses or looks. You seem like a nice girl and people should be respecting you for that. The question is "Do you like the way you look?" I do like the way I dress, I'm comfortable, and I don't have to mess with my clothing all the time.
Thank you for your comments, you seem very kind.
.:sharpie:.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 9:52 am
Northawke_rs Well, I'll give my view of this as a big girl who used to dress quite boyishly as well... I didn't get half the attention I get now that I dress more feminine. For me the transition came kind of naturally (and I still have moments where I like wearing my 'normal' clothes), but I do think a lot of men prefer a more feminine style of clothing... on women, of course. You've given me things to think on.
.:sharpie:.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 10:05 am
I definatly did not get as much notice as I do now that I am more girly and wear eyeliner.....isnt it wierd how you just do a couple little minor things to yourself, then all of a sudden guys notice you...UGGG
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 10:30 am
SquishyAngeh I definatly did not get as much notice as I do now that I am more girly and wear eyeliner.....isnt it wierd how you just do a couple little minor things to yourself, then all of a sudden guys notice you...UGGG you know, im never noticed in that way IRL no matter what i do. im not sad because im not noticed, its just kinda disappointing to think no one, even a guy sees you. ....i dont know what the difference is between me and other girls, even ones that are bigger than i.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 10:32 am
ClaudiaJade SquishyAngeh I definatly did not get as much notice as I do now that I am more girly and wear eyeliner.....isnt it wierd how you just do a couple little minor things to yourself, then all of a sudden guys notice you...UGGG you know, im never noticed in that way IRL no matter what i do. im not sad because im not noticed, its just kinda disappointing to think no one, even a guy sees you. ....i dont know what the difference is between me and other girls, even ones that are bigger than i. I get noticed,
but for the wrong reasons.
I believe my crazy fro-ish hair draws too much attention.
Stupid curls.
I believe I'd rather not be noticed, if it would get people to stop making comments.
Then again, my personality does stand out.
.:sharpie:.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 4:50 pm
I find tomboyishness generally attractive, but that might be mostly because of the belching, sloppy eating, and casual lazyness it implies.
I honestly think if somebody calls you a "fat dyke" to your face, they do not truly believe it and are just looking for a quick insult with one-syllable words.
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:02 pm
I like both as long as they are not over the top. My Codi started off with a serve case of tomboyishness but she says being with makes her want to act more girlie
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 7:11 pm
Obach Stove I like both as long as they are not over the top. My Codi started off with a serve case of tomboyishness but she says being with makes her want to act more girlie Just don't go expecting pinkness and frills ;-; those are two levels that I will never sink to. And yes, being with you is making me feel more girly. But I guess that's because I use severe severe severe tomboyishness as a defense mechanism. No one's going to try and pull s**t with a chick who is fully capable of landing them in the ICU. Anyone ever notice how being in love puts rose colored glasses on the world? *sings* Rose tints my world, keeps me safe from my trouble and paaaaaiiin (For the rocky fans)
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Posted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 9:17 pm
TenshiDarkAngel Obach Stove I like both as long as they are not over the top. My Codi started off with a serve case of tomboyishness but she says being with makes her want to act more girlie Just don't go expecting pinkness and frills ;-; those are two levels that I will never sink to. And yes, being with you is making me feel more girly. But I guess that's because I use severe severe severe tomboyishness as a defense mechanism. No one's going to try and pull s**t with a chick who is fully capable of landing them in the ICU. Anyone ever notice how being in love puts rose colored glasses on the world? *sings* Rose tints my world, keeps me safe from my trouble and paaaaaiiin (For the rocky fans) Good point, being a tomboy is a /great/ defense.
I enjoy it.
-is a rocky fan-
.:sharpie:.
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