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xxloliipOpxx

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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 12:01 am

Well to start things off....I'll just name my problem. I can never get an orgasm...
It never happened while getting fingered but I didn't think anything of it because lots of times it doens't happen then. It didn't happen getting oral either...maybe because that's not one of my favorite things to have done to me..I think its kind of gross and awkward, and it just feels uncomfortable, so that may be a reason for that one...so I waiting thinking it'd happen when I have sex.
Well that just started about two day ago [on Monday] and it's happened once more since then, the first time it was kind of awkward, so I can understand that, but the second it was fine. It didn't hurt anymore. But still it doesn't feel amazing, and I don't get anything from it...

A couple times, when my boyfriend and I have our clothes on, I'll get on top of him and kind of rub him through our clothes, and if I get it right it feels really good, but I can only keep it there for about 5 seconds, but I'm hoping that wasn't an orgasm because it wasn't very strong...I don't think it was to be honest.It just seems like I have to be stimulated on the outside EXACTLY RIGHT for it to feel good. Other things just tickle...

I don't really know what is wrong with me...

Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 3:20 am

Quite a few girls can't orgasm. Some can, some can't.
Try some different positions and different speeds/depths.

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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 9:07 am

A good majority of women need constant clitoral stimulation (like from a vibrator, certain positions in sex and the right kind of fingering/oral) to orgasm.

One thing is for sure, when you do have an orgasm, you'll know.
You might have begun to get an orgasm, but not achieved one yet. Could describe the feeling?

Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 11:06 am

Ummm, honestly, I don't think I can.
It just feels really good. But then he or I will move the tiniest bit, and it will stop..

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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 11:19 pm

Do you know what a muscle twitch feels like?

Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 8:34 am

I know that my whole body sorta shakes during an orgasm.. and then I feel really relaxed after. I've only experienced that twice however and it took absolutely forever for my first time.. xD

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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 9:50 am

In a study of women who said they couldn't orgasm, scientists found that a quarter of them didn't realise they were doing it, because they expected it to feel better. Orgasms are different for everyone. Maybe you should try a vibrator to help you explore? When YOU know what feels good for yourself, you can guide your partner to make it feel good too.

When it comes to masturbation and sex, practice really does make perfect.

Posted: Sat Aug 16, 2008 10:25 am

When your boyfriend fingers you, I think that sometimes he hits your g-spot, and other times, he doesn't. Sometimes I feel a great amount of uncomfortable pressure, so I ask him to do something different. You should try that when he is doing stuff to you.

With the rubbing against each other thing... I think that maybe you are rubbing against him to hard, and that is why you have to stop after a very short amount of time. When I stimulate my clitoris, I have to stop and go periodically because of too much pressure. I have a feeling that if I were to keep going, then I would orgasm from it, but I never let it happen. You should do it, then tell me how it is. =P

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xxloliipOpxx

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Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 7:41 pm

HolyCrudMuffins

When your boyfriend fingers you, I think that sometimes he hits your g-spot, and other times, he doesn't. Sometimes I feel a great amount of uncomfortable pressure, so I ask him to do something different. You should try that when he is doing stuff to you.

With the rubbing against each other thing... I think that maybe you are rubbing against him to hard, and that is why you have to stop after a very short amount of time. When I stimulate my clitoris, I have to stop and go periodically because of too much pressure. I have a feeling that if I were to keep going, then I would orgasm from it, but I never let it happen. You should do it, then tell me how it is. =P

Noes, I mean I can only keep it in the exact spot for like 5 seconds, cuz if either of move the tiniest bit it stops...but I don't get that feeling doing anything else...

I am lucky if I can get it doing that...

Posted: Tue Aug 26, 2008 7:25 pm

Do both of you know where your clitoris is? Has he tried pushing on either side of the clitoral hood so that the clitoris pushes out some? Maybe what you're getting when you push up against him really hard is direct clitoral stimulation. If he's looking at it, it should be easier for him to keep direct contact with it.

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