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 Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:17 pm
Okay so...
Before my boyfriend came along I was with my gay friend Chris almost 24/7, I was happy, but I wasn't completley happy I wanted something more than a best friend, I wanted someone who would love and care for me differently, so I went out of my way to get myself a boyfriend.
Now I am the happiest I could ever be with my boyfriend, the only problem is... Chris is mad at me because I am with my boyfriend more than him,
I am gone for 4-5 days at a time at my boyfriends house, and I never have time for him.. My boyfriend lives pretty far from me so the only way I can be with him is if I actually travel to be with him... but anyway
Chris is the only person who is bothering me about this, day after day.
So the dilemma is this: Cut my time down with Blake and be unhappy while I hang with Chris, or not cut my time with Blake and have Chris b***h at me or stop being my friend.
I can probably see that I am somewhat at fault here too, but still, if he's the only friend that has a problem with me being happy then there must be something more to it, and to be honest, I'm completely fine with just being with Blake for that long and no one else, :/ but I also have no problems making time for when I am home to hang with Chris. When I told him I WOULD cut a day or two off my Blake time he said that's not the point, it's the principle of the fact that I DON'T really want to cut my time down, that;s why he's mad at me. Which I found annoying because if you aren't going to let me fix the situation then why present it to me?
Anyway, what should I do? :]
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 3:25 pm
Build onto your home and let Chris stay too. But not in the same room as Blake. mrgreen
Set Chris up with a boyfriend that won't leave him alone? sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 4:03 pm
H3lblad3 Build onto your home and let Chris stay too. But not in the same room as Blake. mrgreen Set Chris up with a boyfriend that won't leave him alone? sweatdrop It's the other way around for Chris, there's a guy he likes that HE won't leave alone, lol... but that doesn't keep him busy enough. xp
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 4:21 pm
GOD DAMNIT CHRIS WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM
LET THE GIRL GET SEEN TO ALREADY
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 5:44 pm
Sabbycak3s H3lblad3 Build onto your home and let Chris stay too. But not in the same room as Blake. mrgreen Set Chris up with a boyfriend that won't leave him alone? sweatdrop It's the other way around for Chris, there's a guy he likes that HE won't leave alone, lol... but that doesn't keep him busy enough. xp Sell him as a prostitute. rofl
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Posted: Wed Aug 13, 2008 7:24 pm
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 12:13 am
Adrian Cosette GOD DAMNIT CHRIS WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM
LET THE GIRL GET SEEN TO ALREADY Would you like to replace Chris? biggrin
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 6:04 am
Sabbycak3s Adrian Cosette GOD DAMNIT CHRIS WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM
LET THE GIRL GET SEEN TO ALREADY Would you like to replace Chris? biggrin What happens if I do..?
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 8:48 am
Hmm. maybe jsut split the time? But if you aren't happy hanging out with Chris, then don't. That's his problem. But maybe spend time with a group and Chris, instead of jsut alone so you odn't feel so pressured.
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:09 am
Adrian Cosette Sabbycak3s Adrian Cosette GOD DAMNIT CHRIS WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM
LET THE GIRL GET SEEN TO ALREADY Would you like to replace Chris? biggrin What happens if I do..? Only good things! @Neccy: I do split the time, and I do hang out with him in groups, that's the only time when I feel better about hanging out with him 'cause then my attention can be split among the group. xD
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:00 pm
Hm, well...
I DO like good things...
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:09 pm
Well then I got nuthin'. :C
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 8:02 pm
I can't think of a good solution that will make everyone happy. D:
Sorry Sabz.
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Posted: Thu Aug 14, 2008 10:28 pm
Lol, no one can have me now, I'm moving in with my mom 3 hours away from everyone. :]
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Posted: Fri Aug 15, 2008 7:52 pm
Now they can come visit YOU! >=D
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