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 Posted: Sat Aug 09, 2008 7:54 pm
Almost every weekend now.
He goes over to his friends' house and drinks.
And it's pissing me off.
He doesn't bother inviting me.
My mom's annoyed about it.
I don't want to be married to an alcoholic. crying
I'm so sick of him leaving me here alone to go hang out with dumbass drunken sailors.
And there's WOMEN there.
When Marc drinks too much, he blacks out.
If he sleeps with someone else, I will castrate him. scream
I'm so angry right now.
I was crying earlier.
I'm sick of being excluded like this, and I'm sick of him drinking.
*sigh*
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Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2008 2:03 pm
You really should tell him exactly how you feel about it. Let him know that it is putting a rift between the two of you, that you feel left out, and that it really hurts you. Also let him know that you aren't trying to 'ruin' his 'fun' but that this really is a big issue with you. You should also tell him that you worry about him, that you don't want him to get hurt or do something he will later regret- either because it hurts him or you. It isn't fair or considerate of him to act so immaturely about something that is obliviously seriously affecting your relationship.
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Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2008 3:45 pm
Two things about this kinda bother me,
1. he's going out almost every weekend WITHOUT YOU
I agree that yes, people should do things with their own friends and hang out and such, but EVERY weekend? It seems a bit much. I"d be annoyed, if he's gonna go so often, why exclude you? Maybe try to plan things to do together on weekends?
2. he's drinking till he blacks out eek
One, this is a sign of either going on a drinking binge A LOT or someone with a real possible drinking problem. Drinking so much you black out is NOT good. It shouldn't be something that happens every weekend either.
I think you really need to talk to him about this. Firstly about excluding you from hanging out with his friends. Explain that you want to spend time together and the fact he spends every weekend drinking with his friends without you is hurting you. Also about the fact he's drinking so much, I don't really know how to deal with an issue like that but if you feel he is acting like an alcoholic, you can get support from places like AL-ANON (or other support groups for people who are family to alcoholics). Otherwise, maybe try to get him to try not to drink so much, Blacking out and puking are not really all that great parts of drinking anyways.
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