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Alright. The more I'm with my homeboys, the more I laugh at their taste in women. I know certain personalities suit certain people, but I guess I'm real picky when it comes to it, feel me?

When I look for women, other than decent looks, I like:

-Intelligence. I can't stand a dumb a** broad. I'm not Einstein or anything, but I consider myself an intelligent person. So that's how I present myself in person, online, etc... If I have to dumb down my material for conversation, I'm going to be annoyed. I want to be able to talk about a wide range of things with a girl. From music, to religion, from old school cartoons, to politics. Lol. Whatever. I also like to be challenged intellectually. I'm a sarcastic person, and I LOVE it when a girl can return sarcasm in a way that actually makes me have to THINK in order to counter it.

-Goals. I like when women have realistic goals in life. And not just to where it's all talk, but to where they are actually doing things to work up to meet those goals. Any girl can be like, "I wanna do hair. I can do cornrows, I can put in some extentions, I can make red highlights" whatever. That's fine, but if that's what she wants, I want to know if she's making moves to get licensed. I want a career woman, not a chick putting perms in Kat Williams looking niggas heads for under-the-table cash, you dig? I'm in college myself. I have goals, and I'm currently on the move to meet them.

-Maturity. I don't want some immature woman. I'm not trying to have no heated arguments over some dumb a** s**t. I left high school years ago, and I left the high school drama back in high school. That's where it needs to stay. (Even when I was in high school, I didn't get in that s**t.)

-Adaptable. By adaptable, I'm talking about a woman that can adapt to any situation and rise to the occasion. If s**t goes down, she needs to stand strong. If times get tough, she needs to get tougher. If I got some dude on the ground and stomping his a** out, she needs to be throwing random stomps too. XD ********, throw some rocks at his a** or something. rofl She needs to be down for me, homie. Just like I'd be down for her.

-Level headed. I like girls that are able to keep calm long enough to think. For an example, if a fire breaks out, I don't want her running around all wild and screaming like a Farmer John pig knowing it's about to get slaughtered. I want her to take the neccessary actions. Nothing crazy.

There's more, but I'm tired of typing for now. I just wanna enjoy my beer. Lol.

Lol that's acceptable.

Atleast it's not all the perfect guy crap like,

OMG I WANT HIM TO BE SO FINE.
ALWAYS SWEET...
BLAH BLAH.

lawl

I jus want a gyal who accept me 4 who I is jaja cuz trust me ittl b rare 4 a gyal 2 find wut i think normal, or atleast acceptable... none of dis "im gone change yo whole life make u a betta person" crap n no offense 2 any1... I like dat sum1 cares, but i dunt need it.

n she betta hav no problem wit a smoker n drinker xd

rofl Yeah, some of them chicks have the mentality that they can mold you into some s**t. Especially if they're a little older than you.

Also known as valley girls xd

I guess I could be considered one of those people but I believe people ultimately mold themselves. &-- God is an exception though. xD

I wouldn't try to change someones personality or anything physical unless it isn't healthy, in the way of their goals and I disagree with your view.

I will try to change someones mind (unless I'm being lazy, don't have resources, it's already been said or can't think of any arguements) concerning health/education/morality/religion with as much honesty, religion, logic, emotions and respect to their choice as possible. I'll try to never step over or lie to change someones mind. While I'll always accept someone for who they are, I'm going to disagree with certain actions and I will hold you accountable if for example: you murder someone with intention without any reason other than fun, I will turn you in. I don't care if I look hypocritical or pushy, just because someone is hypocritical or pushy, it doesn't mean that the words they say aren't right. The only difference is I don't think I'm any better but if changing myself is what it takes to convince someone then I will try and changing myself is for myself too, I don't think I'm the one changing someones life though. While you can try to convince someone, it is ultimately that persons' decision and prefference. Once I've exhausted all possible arguements I can come up with, I probably won't bring it up again unless it is relevant.

Seriously, if my boyfriend started beating up another guy for no other reason than self-defense, I'm not going to just stand by while he does that. I'll try to convince him to not beat the guy up and if that doesn't work, stop him with force. I would be loyal to a point, while I'll accept someone for the way they are, I would try not to compromise my morals unless I think what they say makes sense, is right and was the right course of action take. If you're doing weed, drinking or smoking, screw you, I'm not going to do these with you. If you decide to do these things, it's your choice, but expect an essay on why you shouldn't from God and me, after the essay, everything is your choice and I'll leave the rest for you to decide. xD

In my opinion.

What I look for in guys. While I'm open to other personalities, I have to draw a line somewhere. I'm not going to date a *****, rapist, serial killer, ghost, zombie, animal, girl, inanimate object etc..:

Loves/Likes: I want someone who actually likes or loves (romantically) me wether I'm pretty or not, wether I'm sociable or not, smart or not, rich or not, bossy or not, insecure or not, christian or not and can accept me for who I am. This is a must.

But he still wouldn't be afraid to disagree or change my mind about something if he doesn't think it's right.

Loyalty: I don't mind not talking for a while, drifting apart, ups and downs, fights and fun, cheating (while I can forgive cheating once, I'm not going to be a romantic doormat to someone who'll screw 100 people, while I don't mind being a doormat to friends, I'm looking for something real). As long as he'll be there in the end but still actually likes/loves me and is willing to fight for the relationship. I want both of us to work for the relationship within respect with eachothers (friends, family and work) social lives and morals (wouldn't also be afraid to disagree).

While I look for loyalty, I'm also looking for something real.

Age: Someone fairly within my age range, not too old or too young for me. I don't want someone who's like 50 while I'm 25. Or while I'm 30 and they're like 12. This is a must. xD

Gentlemen: I preffer gentlemen with backbones, a guy whose a gentleman but isn't afraid to tell me what they think of me face to face or in email and isn't afraid to hurt my feelings and tell me what he thinks of me. Isn't afraid to tell me he doesn't like or love me anymore face to face or in email.

Reality: I don't like illusions, people fooling me or fooling myself. I preffer it that someone doesn't lead me on just so I feel better.

Any guy who dates me and is my boyfriend won't get any until we're married. xD

Game. Over.

I like gangster bitches haha, especially cholas. pero not all crazy style to the point where its annoying to hear the ruka talk. just someone as gangster as I am... Also, need a woman that can take a punch rofl rofl rofl