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LonelyElementalKitsune

 
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PostPosted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 11:48 am


Okay, this guy I used to date was like, really clingy and stuff, so I broke up with him. And he was really annoying and childish about it.
Now, about 2 months later I REALLY miss him.

But there's also another guy I think I like. He's been through much of the same s**t as me and we're still in contact, even though both of us have problems with the phone and he lives 4 states away.

Could anyone offer advice?
Please?
PostPosted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 11:55 am


well what does your heart tell you, clearly you feel something for both guys, but put yourself together.
You miss the guy you hated, so that is something to really think about. blaugh 3nodding
The other guy, you think you like, but you are not so sure, so um yeah.... sweatdrop
I woul say go with the guy you know you really miss and are confident you like, you said you think you like ther other, which tells me that you are not sure, right? blaugh 3nodding

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PostPosted: Sat Aug 02, 2008 1:50 pm


Which would you rather spend your days with? You gotta ask yourself which of the two you could put up with for whoever long your relationship is. Sure the one guy annoys you but, maybe you can put up with it for the sake of the relationship (and he may change if you talk with him about it). On the other hand if you can relate more to the other lad, and you would rather spend your time with one whom you can relate to then that is what you should go for. Just remember to ask yourself to hard questions and listen to your heart.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 11:39 am


Just picture which would you like to spend the rest of your day's with.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 11:59 am


ok i had a friend who had this happen to her and she choose the guy who made her smile, laugh, and cared about her.
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