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Nice, I admire another looking out for a folks around here. cool

thats good you try to help people. biggrin

lol Hottness! but I really dont know how to word my problems right ..... maybe when I figure that out I will come to you since non of my friends are any friekn help....lol well besided TB he's always a help!

Alright, I think you're looking for a challenge here. SO!!! I'm gonna lay some heavy s**t down.

Ok, I'm hyping a bit because I'm curious, why I'm curious is another story stressed .

Here's the deal, my best bud, we will call him Alex, is dating a girl that I love well and we are friends. Her name is Rosy. Alex recently met a guy in his archery class at school and they hit it off pretty well and became friends. His name is Jake, and boy is Jake a poon hound. He ain't much for foolin' with boys but, damn does he love sex with girls, or at leasts partakes often. Jake has a girlfriend who was a stripper. Now don't get these folks wrong by how I'm describing them. They love each other, they're smart and over all pretty good folks. Needless to say they are a bit promiscuous. So we went and saw Jake's girl, Linda, at the strip clubs amateur night. We were rooting for Linda because she could win 500 dollars. So we got down to the finals between Linda and some other gal. Sadly ONE of the disqualified girls held a grudge so her friends rooted against Linda so she lost.
( just a pleasant side story, the real deal is what followed.)
So Rosey is Alex's first girlfriend and firs lay ever. 3 Years together. And Rosey, is a little worried that down the line Alex would get tempted by the idea of having sex with other women. So she wants him to have sex with another person to perhaps alleviate the curiosity. That's something that has been a potential issue for a while. Then not too long after the strip night, I discovered that the girls Linda and Rosey were fooling around. With the encouragement and approval of their boys. So that went on for a while. Then the idea of swapping partners was thrown around. But, Rosey did not like being hounded in the least bit, which Jake was want to do. Alex didn't seem to interested in Linda either. So it didn't seem like anything would come of it. Alex, having just aquired a job at U-Haul with the help of his bud, and now co-worker Jake, was getting really buddy buddy with Jake. So Jake asked Alex why things weren't happening. To which Alex replyed (from what Rosey has told me) "Give her some time, the idea will grow on her" Which Rosey found rather presumptuous. So she got pissed with him for a while. They began to show signs of separation. And it seemed understood that the partner swapping idea was a non-goer. Sure enough, one day without informing anyone, Alex and Linda did some heavy petting. Nothing but a hand job, and some fingering. But Jake got pissed and he and Linda had a fight about everything. Then we drank together one night (all of us). This was at Jakes. So Rosey and I were going to leave at some point because we were working early the next day. Alex was staying to go to work with Jake. So I drove Rosey home and on the way she starts telling me that she's jealous that Alex got to fool around with someone of the opposite gender. Then she goes to say that she wishes that to fool around with a boy to at least see where he's coming from becuase the sex between her and Alex had decreased after he fooled around with Linda. Then , with a sigh, she exclaims that out of all the boys she could have sex with other than Alex, I'm the only one she would want to have sex with. At which point we talk about it at length.

I love her dearly.
We're pissed at Alex over the recent affairs.
We've been pissed in the past.
She doubts the relationship.
And we're a little drunk.

He's my best friend.
We all live together.
We all have big plans for the future.
And we've all been friends for YEARS (me and alex 5, me and Rosey 3)

What's your advice man? Should I go for it? Should I run to the hills? Or should I stick things out and why and how? Lay your best on me man, cause I want it all.

I don't think it warrants further discussion. I agree pretty whole heartedly with what you say and approve of your advice. But, that's actually pretty long history by this point (not really all that long, but everyone has hence progressed with our little story).

Anyway, I mostly wanted to see how you were. It's egotistical to think I could test someone, but I suppose I have a bit of a history here as the love man. Thunder is the long running guy to go to, but I think I've grown a more recent repertoire. Although it's nice to have others who wish to help others so readily.

That and I thought this story showed how understanding members of this guild are. So that perhaps SycoticVampireChick might be willing to share with us her troubles. I know you would never had mentioned them, if you had never though we could some how help? Why don't you tell us a story? I'm sure we could help if you need it.

help is still help smile

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