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 Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 2:08 am
Well, maybe not all my time would be dedicated to the kira case, but it would be after I solve this one.
So, I know these two girls, "Mii" And "Latias" as I nicknamed them to protect their identities. I've hung out with both of them for a while, but Mii tended to constantly get closer to me. We hung out a lot, now she's my self-proclaimed girlfriend. The thing is, I sorta liked Latias for a while and Mii really likes me and I think I actually sorta like her back.. -.- My friend "Ringo" had been some support as she's tried helping me some.. But I can't escape the fact that one person's going to end up heart broken. I know I'd rather it be me, but it's a difficult decision so far. The longer this drags on, the more it's going to hurt someone and it's already been eating away at me. Mii trusts me. A lot more than her own family. So I find it much harder to betray the trust of someone whom I care about thus making my life miserable.
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Posted: Thu Jul 24, 2008 2:03 pm
Quite a predicament there. lets see, where to start in this one. well lets start with you, you say you like both of them, though "Latias" more so, even though you admit you are closer to "mii". Could be that since your closer to "mii" anyways, you may like her more while "latias" is sort of more of an idea as to what you think it could be with her. Sort of, Your starting to kick of the ground with "mii" but you have a grass is greener attitude towards "Latias" thinking that it may be better to try for her. is that right so far?
as for "mii", the only other one who i can get some feel of personality, i would say that her becoming attached to you may not be a good thing in the end. you say she trust you more then family, which may be bad if your relationship falls though and hits her hard. sounds almost like a dependancy for support from you, though with so little info i can't put more then a responce from that first impression of what is going on.
finally a bit of person advice, i have always done my best to take the blunt of all hits when it came to family and friends. i would take any suffering to prevent them some hardship, and in the end i got screwed over a large number of times. sometimes you have to chose to do what is better for you and hope your friends understand. Trust goes two ways you know, and friends should understand that you aren't going to sacrifice every time to keep them happy. This is not saying to make you decision like that, merely try to keep it in perspective that if your choice is going to make you truly miserable, then why would your friend ask it of you and not be willing to take a little hardship themselves for your happiness?
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MiketheDarkFireAlchemist Crew
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Posted: Sat Jul 26, 2008 5:16 pm
Did you even look at what's in my signature? Oh well, let's see what I can do.
So you like Latias, but you also like Mii. For one, you might want to find out if Latias likes you by dropping small hints, maybe a game of truth or dare (though that's hard to work right), or just being blunt as a bat and asking her if she likes you. She might say yes, and you two might hit it off.
On to Mii. She likes you alot and is getting closer to you. The trust is a big part of friendship, but more then family is a little much, unless her family sucks. And be careful: I had a girl like me like that once. I didn't like her, and soon she told everyone we were dating, and when I told her no, she responded with "You're my boyfriend and I'm not taking no for an answer." You do not want a psycho-stalker, trust me.
So here's the basic. If you like Latias more, go for Latias. The worse she can say is no, but at least you'll be friends still. Mii will probably be hurt by these events, but if she tells you that you hurt her, say something along the lines of her still having a chance with you. This wont heal a hurt heart immediately, but it will keep her from hurting alot more then if you said "Sorry, you're not my type."
If that's not good enough, here's some universal advice: Follow your heart. Do what you think is the best, and do it. BUT, do not miss a chance you wanted to take, as you may never get it again. I know of that last one all too well.
Hope this helps,
~DFA
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Posted: Mon Jul 28, 2008 12:34 am
I'll respond to this with a question of my own:
Which would you call your 'comrade for life'?
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