Be an example to your men,
in your duty and in private life. Never spare yourself,
and let the troops see that you don't in your endurance
of fatigue and privation.
There is no need to be on the defensive when it comes to verifying your mental stability. Let them call you crazy. At least the voices know you're alright.
Crazy people also tend to be crazy because they've dealt with more s**t in their lives and can handle it better. Most killers seem to be the "normal" people.
If you don't get the references above then watch Christopher Titus: Norman Rockwell is burning. It's funny and true. biggrin
Always be tactful and well-mannered and teach your
subordinates to do the same. Avoid excessive
sharpness or harshness of voice, which usually
indicates the man who has shortcomings of his own to hide.