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 Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:20 pm
i have a small atraction to girls that are like twelve and i some times have dreams about haveing sex with them but i would never do it how do i make it stop do i need mentle help. i do not think this is very normal and i am not a child molester and bye the why im 16
please dont think badly of me
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:35 pm
4 years isn't really a big difference. When you get older, age difference will mean even less. If you reach 18 and still feel the same way, but would never do anything, there shouldn't be too much of a problem but I think as you mature more, your attraction to females will also mature.
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:36 pm
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:37 pm
i will still like other people thoughts
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 5:55 pm
Like Fia said, four years isn't a big deal once you get a bit older. So if you're 24 and finding yourself attracted to girls who are about 20, no big deal. However, if you're 24 and still finding yourself attracted to 12 year olds, then you might want to look into talking to a professional about it. In the meantime, I think it is nothing to panic over as long as you're not tempted to act on it.
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Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 1:25 am
LorienLlewellyn Like Fia said, four years isn't a big deal once you get a bit older. So if you're 24 and finding yourself attracted to girls who are about 20, no big deal. However, if you're 24 and still finding yourself attracted to 12 year olds, then you might want to look into talking to a professional about it. In the meantime, I think it is nothing to panic over as long as you're not tempted to act on it. Seconded! smile
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Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 2:11 pm
You can also let yourself be attracted but not do anything for real. Thinking about it isn't dangerous, as long as you know you can control it.
Not everybody attracted to children are molesters, just like not everybody that are attracted to adults will go out and rape one.
But if it still bothers you when you get older, and you don't like the thoughts... talk to a professional.
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Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2008 3:48 pm
ok thank you every body for all your help
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