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The Star of David wasn't a symbol of Judaism until barely 200 years ago. It is also a symbol of Hindu principles, the union of male and female essences. Wear it if you want. Don't worry a bit about it. You have every right to wear the Star of David if you want to wear it, whether as a symbol of support for Israel or as a statement of belief in the God of Israel and the religion of Judaism, or for anything else you want.

If you want to hold off wearing it until after you complete your conversion, I'm sure that it will feel just as meaningful for it to be the first thing you put on after you emerge from the mikvah waters. But don't let your current halachic status bother you. Wear it if you want; don't wear it if you want. Jews have, for four thousand years, done what they felt was right regardless of how the surrounding world felt about it. Do the same.

Wow, that is quite hurtful. I think I would have cried... I really do. sad
It's up to you if you wish to wear it or not, like Divash said.

Here's my suggestion.

Find a different rabbi.

Go reformed, they're less a**l about such things.

Yes, it was hurtful, and not at all necessary, and not at all true. It is not wrong for non-Jews to seek conversion or to convert. It is not necessary, but it is not wrong. That person may have worn the clothing of Orthodoxy, may have spoken the language of Judaism, but they were clearly not Orthodox in the sense of understanding Torah and living by it. A convert should be discouraged because it is a very hard life being a Jew and even harder being a convert, but a sincere convert should be welcomed and assisted -- the discouragement is only meant to help those who truly aren't suited to Judaism to realize it before they've made a lifelong commitment that they will later not want to keep.

It's deeply embarrassing to me, as an Orthodox Jew, when an Orthodox (or ostensibly-Orthodox) Jew exercises elitism and bigotry. I wish I could apologize on the person's behalf, but I can't erase the wrongdoing of another. I can only say that this person does not speak for Orthodoxy, and when someone like this pretends to speak for me, he makes me and other Orthodox Jews look bad. This is the sort of behavior that makes people feel the way Neuf apparently does, that all Orthodox Jews are tight-laced, elitist jerks. This isn't the case, and I hope that I can serve as an example of the opposite.

I can say, though, that while there are rabbis who are skittish of potential converts, and there are rabbis who are so skittish that they won't do conversions, a real mensch of a rabbi will at least have the courtesy to direct you towards one who will help.

I'll field this one.

His fascination with Judaism is just simple curiosity about what the culture and religion is and what it's all about. Look at the other thread and see how much I know about Christianity during the reformation. I can tell the difference between a Jacobite and a Jesuit but it doesn't mean I'm either one.

The Christian thing he has working in his sig line is just his own pride in his own religion. I don't think consider it proselytizing that he puts crosses everywhere and writes about how Jesus loves him.

Infact it appears that he is encouraging you to wear the Star of David regardless of his own views.

Oh and back to mazuac's question.

Goyim is a term used to describe those who are not Jewish. Translate as "Gentile"