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 Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 1:38 am
Alright so there are two guys that I have to choose between .
I dont know what to do because I want them both ( but there is no
way i am going to cheat on a guy , thats disrespectful ) .
Guy 1 - i have had sex with him , but he's 5 years older than me
Guy 2 - i want him really bad , and i will never have sex with him .
Im wondering if it would be best to just choose neither and move on .
agreed ? or any advice is appreciated heart
- i might not have put enough information
so just ask .
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Posted: Sun Jul 20, 2008 1:34 pm
Hmm, I'm the type of person that thinks when it comes to love, age doesn't matter, but i also think sex doesn't matter either.
I don't think you should be with a guy because of sex.
You should be with the person who makes you feel better about yourself and enjoy spending time with. ^_^
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fred_dani_danielly Captain
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:44 am
Well, that's not a whole lot of information. I somewhat agree with Princess Jasmine as well. I mean, you definitely shouldn't be with someone just because of sex. You should be with someone that you care about, and cares about you. About feeling.
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Posted: Mon Aug 04, 2008 11:24 pm
it's true, you didnt put much information,
cause all you posted about is sex. and you cant just build a relationship on sex.
first you should think who makes you the happiest ALL of the time, think back on the memories you have with them, and wich seemed more boyfriend material.
also think of who you could actually see yourself with longer.
what are their personalities like?
why do you like them?
oh, and it's kinda off subject, but sex seems ind of important to you, so why cant you have sex with guy 2?
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Posted: Fri Nov 07, 2008 2:37 am
I too was kinda wondering why you said you'd NEVER have sex with boy #2?
Anyway sex is always more meaningful when it's with someone you really adore so I would follow my heart or else you'll probably regret it?
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Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:38 am
An intimate relationship is about making connections in every sense, including the physical. Some may argue that sex is a huge part of a relationship, while some say it's irrelevant. Whether or not you want sex to be a part of your relationship is up to you. If it has value, then embrace that value.
HOWEVER, as I'm sure you've heard before, sex isn't the only thing to keep in mind. I mentioned making connections. That involves mental, emotional, and, if applicable, spiritual as well. What values and aspects in your life do you value most? And which of these guys complements that well?
It's a lot to think about, I know. And believe me when I say I understand it's a tough choice. The best way to go about this is to A.) not act on impulse and B.) get to know these guys a little better.
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Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 3:45 pm
Wow...you want him real bad but you won't have sex with boy#2...yet you had sex with boy#1....think about it...Question: Who do you picture yourself with 10 years from now?
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