Just sitting here and dreaming...
Alright, this is a continue of "Just not going as planned..." For those who didn't read the other, Kurt (my boyfriend) lives in a state I just moved from and isn't taken responsibility for our son and is becomming more and more selfish as the days pass. I love him very much, but I can't take this anymore and I don't want Kristopher (our son) to be involved in our fights.
I really would like Kristopher to be able to grow up in a normal suburb town and have a wonderful life. I live with my parents as of right now, so I don't have to worry about rent, but I do need to find a job so I can save up to move out next year. I want to be able to take care of Kristopher now that I see Kurt wont take responsibility. This is a really hard decission and hurts me since I don't like hurting Kurt, but I'm 99% sure I want to file for child support. He's just made to many excuses why he isn't out here yet, he doesn't have a job, and he's been treating me like I'm worthless.
Today was my last straw, or the last bit of emotional strain I could take. I ended up calling Kurt and he complained about everything from his mouth hurting, to his computer not working, when it was just fine yesterday. He keeps on making up excuses to not talk to me and then says that isn't it even though I know it is. I'm done being thrown about like a toy and treated like crap, then having the tables turned on me just so he can make me feel bad. Like how I'm evil and mean to him, when the only times I've ever been mean to him he deserved it because he did something at least 3x worse that hurt me or ruined my social life.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can get Kurt to grow up, think of priorities and shape up? I'm really angry at him now and I'm going to try somehow to make it clear to him that he needs to grow up! Also, discuss your hubby problems. Thanks ladies smile
I really would like Kristopher to be able to grow up in a normal suburb town and have a wonderful life. I live with my parents as of right now, so I don't have to worry about rent, but I do need to find a job so I can save up to move out next year. I want to be able to take care of Kristopher now that I see Kurt wont take responsibility. This is a really hard decission and hurts me since I don't like hurting Kurt, but I'm 99% sure I want to file for child support. He's just made to many excuses why he isn't out here yet, he doesn't have a job, and he's been treating me like I'm worthless.
Today was my last straw, or the last bit of emotional strain I could take. I ended up calling Kurt and he complained about everything from his mouth hurting, to his computer not working, when it was just fine yesterday. He keeps on making up excuses to not talk to me and then says that isn't it even though I know it is. I'm done being thrown about like a toy and treated like crap, then having the tables turned on me just so he can make me feel bad. Like how I'm evil and mean to him, when the only times I've ever been mean to him he deserved it because he did something at least 3x worse that hurt me or ruined my social life.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how I can get Kurt to grow up, think of priorities and shape up? I'm really angry at him now and I'm going to try somehow to make it clear to him that he needs to grow up! Also, discuss your hubby problems. Thanks ladies smile
...wishing you were here.
