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 Posted: Fri Jul 11, 2008 1:35 pm
Feel free to message me, lovelyitaliana, ok? I love you all very much and will help you out! I'm good at this stuff- 20 yrs old so if you're younger and need an older young person's help I have been most places in life and can give sound advice.
xoxo Lovely
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Posted: Sun Jul 13, 2008 9:19 am
Thank you for offering lovely. I'm sure there will be people looking for it.
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Posted: Thu Jul 17, 2008 5:32 pm
hhhmm....I'm not sure if I need advice or anything but...a month ago I lost me virginity....and that was probably the worst mistake in my entire life (thank god there wasn't any other worse mistakes >.>) anywho....*sighs* does its still count or...do you truly give it up when you actaully are married and stuff?....and...am I a bad person for making that mistake?...trust me I'm not goin to do it again because well...I won't get into the details but...yeah it wasn't pretty....oh and I'm sorry if this was too much over the pg-13 thingy but...you did say ask for advice so...mibs...
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Posted: Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:34 pm
erm.....*pokes the thread* mibs? sweatdrop gonk sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 9:09 am
mibster hhhmm....I'm not sure if I need advice or anything but...a month ago I lost me virginity....and that was probably the worst mistake in my entire life (thank god there wasn't any other worse mistakes >.>) anywho....*sighs* does its still count or...do you truly give it up when you actaully are married and stuff?....and...am I a bad person for making that mistake?...trust me I'm not goin to do it again because well...I won't get into the details but...yeah it wasn't pretty....oh and I'm sorry if this was too much over the pg-13 thingy but...you did say ask for advice so...mibs... The bible says that every sin is equal and we all sin and make mistakes. You realized that, that wasn't something God would want you to do, He forgave you. Your not a bad person for that!
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:36 pm
Ventrisida mibster hhhmm....I'm not sure if I need advice or anything but...a month ago I lost me virginity....and that was probably the worst mistake in my entire life (thank god there wasn't any other worse mistakes >.>) anywho....*sighs* does its still count or...do you truly give it up when you actaully are married and stuff?....and...am I a bad person for making that mistake?...trust me I'm not goin to do it again because well...I won't get into the details but...yeah it wasn't pretty....oh and I'm sorry if this was too much over the pg-13 thingy but...you did say ask for advice so...mibs... The bible says that every sin is equal and we all sin and make mistakes. You realized that, that wasn't something God would want you to do, He forgave you. Your not a bad person for that! I know it's just...I feel bad for giving into temptation but...I guess it happens to the best of us so mibs....
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Posted: Tue Jul 22, 2008 4:28 pm
mibster Ventrisida mibster hhhmm....I'm not sure if I need advice or anything but...a month ago I lost me virginity....and that was probably the worst mistake in my entire life (thank god there wasn't any other worse mistakes >.>) anywho....*sighs* does its still count or...do you truly give it up when you actaully are married and stuff?....and...am I a bad person for making that mistake?...trust me I'm not goin to do it again because well...I won't get into the details but...yeah it wasn't pretty....oh and I'm sorry if this was too much over the pg-13 thingy but...you did say ask for advice so...mibs... The bible says that every sin is equal and we all sin and make mistakes. You realized that, that wasn't something God would want you to do, He forgave you. Your not a bad person for that! I know it's just...I feel bad for giving into temptation but...I guess it happens to the best of us so mibs.... It certainly does! Give it completely to God. He will erase the sin like it never even happend, try not to let the guilt eat you up, remember that's what satan wants!
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Posted: Thu Jul 31, 2008 1:35 pm
Mibs- I know what it feels like, honey- just don't put yourself in the position to sin again...don't ever be alone with anyone of the opposite sex unless they're your parent, sibling, or child lol. I suggest this book by Justin Lookadoo called The Dirt on Sex. It's a really informative Christian book- don't let the name fool you- it's truly Christian and he explains things in the best words EVER. Also, honey- don't worry...when God forgives you your sins, He casts them into the sea of forgetfulness- and it's like you never messed up. So repent (turn away for good!)!!! Don't do it again, move on, and be happy xoxo and read that book- it's very beneficial xoxo Lovely
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Posted: Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:16 am
wow, july? gawd... anyway, you should date in public, nothing serious at first, get to know a few different people and then pick one, but even then i would suggest waiting until marriage for your next... roll in the hay
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Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2009 5:19 pm
Ok, well, my topic's sort of broad, but I just feel like an outsider sometimes. The biggest difference is the whole dating thing. Everyone's all about boy friends and girl friends, and frankly, I just don't get it. I mean, what's the point? I just hear so many break up stories and there's the fact that everyone immediatly connects dating with... yeah. It's just, how do make sure that the guy has the right intentions? And how should I respond to people who bug me for not dating?
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Posted: Fri Oct 09, 2009 8:34 pm
I know this is a very late response, but I have to say it anyway.
The point of dating is to find a mate, to see what kinds of people you get along with, don't get along with, and hopefully realize that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you find. Nowadays, though, dating is more about the immediate satisfaction of having sex or sometimes just to be able to say "Oh that's my boyfriend/girlfriend" to friends and others (bragging).
When someone has good intentions, they won't put you in a position that you would feel nervous in. They won't make you do anything or go anywhere you don't want to go. There's always the matter of doing things you want to do, and then later regretting them, but that's why God forgives us. He knows we mess up, a lot.
The people who bug you for not dating just don't understand that you think differently than they do. I'm almost 19 and in college and I've only dated one person. Hold yourself to a higher standard and don't date just to be able to say that you do. Date to find the man (or woman, depending on your gender, dear reader) that you will want to spend the rest of your life with.
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