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 Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 4:16 am
Ok um.. well I'm posting this here, coz you lot are always pretty cool about everything. Um, Sanne put a post a while ago, saying I wanted a guy. Well.. I do, a lot, but I love her so much. It makes me feel so guilty to do that to her, but I can't lie to myself. I'm not leaving her, no ******** way, but I don't know where to go from here. Comment please, and if anyone's got any probs, post em here if you like.
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 4:17 am
yeh i doubted anyone comment yet, but i can wait
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Posted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 12:26 pm
I may be slightly biased (being her friend and all) but I think you have to concider what you value most, physical comfort (leaning towards the guy) or love & affection (Sanne) and go with that.
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Posted: Wed Sep 21, 2005 1:01 pm
Roselite I may be slightly biased (being her friend and all) but I think you have to concider what you value most, physical comfort (leaning towards the guy) or love & affection (Sanne) and go with that. Yeh i know, we're doin ok, things are cool. You have a point, i know what you mean.
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 12:25 am
Well, here's the way I see it: You Like Her. You also like Guys. You can have one or the other. The main thing left for you to think to yourself is, "What Is gonna make Me most happy?" Now, I think that she's a great person (Even though I've never met her or anything) and that you'd probably be out of your mind to leave a Girl like her. However, I understand that you are going through some turmoil as to what you really want. It boils down to this: How much do you really love her? Could you bear letting her go? And would you really be happier with a Guy? Would you reget leaving her if you did? And again, are you doing what is making you most happy?
I know it's not really advice, but I suggest thinking a couple of these things over. If youre lucky, you might just find the answer youre looking for.
But, and I say it once more, (not to try and sway youre decision, or anything) you'd have to be pretty crazy to leave a Girl like her.
Good luck on your decision... neutral
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Posted: Sun Sep 25, 2005 4:55 am
I can sorta understand. You love Sanne like crazy but you also lfeeel a want for a boy. I rember a friend had the same problem. They loved their boyfriend so much but wanted a girlfriend so much. This may not worl for you and sanne but it worked for them. They talked about Her having a girlfriend but still being with her boyfriend. They decided that she could have a girlfriend but still remain with him. As long as she stayed honset with him and he knew the girl it was ok.
It might not work with you and Sanne if it doesn't then try the other's advice.
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