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KITA_666

PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 9:28 pm


Hi i'm Happy_emo_puppy but you can call me Squeak. i'm looking for a buddie to help me thought my confusing life.

I have a lot of family trubles and school trubles. I also need some advice for my love life, but i have good advice myself. So don't think i'm completely useless, i like meeting new people, but am a bit shy. If you'ed like to talk please post.
But please be nice><

ok now for me.... i live in a family of 4 sometimes 5. i go to highschool (15 1/2 years old). I've moved over 15 times. i have a small group of great friends. i've had my heart broken a few times and would like some help with that. I'm also usually the shortest in class and everywhere.
PostPosted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:02 pm


Hi! -waves and offers a cheese cube- how are you today?

HappyPinkHearts


skylark_101

PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 6:34 am


I'd love to be your friend! ^_^
I know what it's like to live in a large family [I live in a family of 7] so I can see what you mean.
If there's ever anything on your mind, or something you'd like to rant about, or if you just feel like talking, then you can come to me 3nodding
I'm here for you.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 8:50 pm


i'm fine thanx ~nibbleds on cheese like a mouse~
and thank you both for being kind i'll definrntly know who to talk to skylark_101... i can rant... yay my family walks away if i want to rant

KITA_666


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:24 pm


Yay! Hi, Squeak-E!

Hey, everyone has troubles everywhere and that's what we're here for. smile So don't hold back and rant your heart out, we're here to listen. There's just those stages in life in which you just need to let it all out because things aren't going how you want them to, but that's okay. We'll help you along. We've all been there at one point or another.

I'm from a family of ... uhm ... -Counts on her fingers- Myself, my sister, my mom, my dad and two brothers. A family of Six. Sometimes nine 'cause my sister lived/will live with us. biggrin So it's all good.

Ugh. Heartbreaks. Who HASN'T been there.
PostPosted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:38 pm


um... yeah... WOOOOOO Squeek Squeek! if you need anything or anyone to talk to you can count me cause ill be there in a hurry and if im not its cause i passed by Joh on the but seriously... if it appears i'm not online on gaia its probably just cause my internet went down biggrin otherwise i'm always here... and if im not here here.. i'm online somewheres.. so you can msg me on like aim or msn or yahoo whichever one you use... ill give em all to you


Yahoo:tks_gurl@yahoo.com
Aim:kairirose21
MSN:pookie122@hotmail.com

HappyPinkHearts


KITA_666

PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 4:44 am


thanx Layleah and joh ^-^... i love your avatars. ...

well ok heres my rant for today. ok i love my parents granit, but they don't excapt me my little brother and step dad are the only ones who don't care that i'm bi, but my mom regects me for it and she has trubles with talking to me now and she always brings the subject up so she can pry even more into my life and i tell her and then she yells and rounds me.

my real father says he loved me and i haven't heard from him when he said he wanted to get back into my life, then he moves to Washington DC and doesn't contact anyone and iit makes me feel like he hates me, and i'm crying over it and it takes A LOT to make me cry crying

and now i'm having problems with my dreams i'm dreaming of my terrifying past... i'm dreaming of my step mother who abused me and tried to kill me when i was three, and i'm dreaming of my uncle scott who stabbed me when i was 7
PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:10 am


Holy cow.. I am not much in the way of dreams, so maybe Joh can help you there.. but as for being bi and having family with split reactions, i've been there. My dad and brother were very accepting of me, my mom went through various emotions like confusion, she kept saying to my dad "but i thought she liked boys.. dad would say she does she just likes girls too" and then she'd be in denial telling me it's just a phase, and then finally and this was only a few years ago she was ok with it. she was able to discuss it with me without flying out of hand... it just takes time.. sometimes longer than others.... so just relax and give it time.. things'll get better...

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:48 pm


Uhm, I really have no input on this situation. =/ As far as sexuality goes, I mean, I don't have that strong a connection with my parents so rejection either way would probably come easy, therefore I don't have much advice there.

As far as dreams go, just be glad they're only dreams. smile It's not happening anymore and you're safe. I'm sorry those things happened to you, though, and I know that sometimes it can be hard for you to get over them because they're so terrifying, but like everything else, time will heal it and things will be better. You simply have to be patient. People are scared of what they don't understand, they fear things that are not part of their daily lives or things that society doesn't consider 'normal'. That's what your mother is going through. Just give it time.

As for your father, I'm not sure how to explain that. My niece basically has the same thing going on. Her father left when she wasn't even born yet and then a few years later, he wanted to get to know her and be with her, but then he ended up getting married to someone else and all this stuff happened and now ... well, no one knows of him anymore.

It might not be much, but that's my input.
PostPosted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 6:52 pm


thanx thats helpfull yeah it's hard to talk about it because people make fun of me for it and because i'm hard of hearing so thanx for being suportive.
i kinda gots the same deal with my mom she favors my big brother for his smartys and i'm hving trubbles just getting to the next grade soo yeah

KITA_666


Lunar_Sunset

PostPosted: Wed Jul 30, 2008 11:02 am


u sound kwl
im also prtty gud at giving advice and stuff
u can pm meh anytime if u ever nd anythin.
PostPosted: Fri Aug 08, 2008 12:29 pm


u sound like an interesting person.

i would love to be your buddy smile

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KITA_666

PostPosted: Sun Aug 10, 2008 3:31 am


...^_^ 4laugh 4laugh 4laugh 4laugh 4laugh you guys thankies
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