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 Posted: Sat Jul 05, 2008 9:27 pm
I am one sad panda.
Today I went out with my boyfriend Kyle, his best friend Donovan, and his mom to go to a picnic his Tae Kwon Do place was having. Now, I'm not one for big social settings where I don't know anyone cause I'm really shy and nervous around people. But the combination of sun and no food (since I was too scared to get anything with all these people around) made me kinda cranky. So we had to wait an hour while his mom had her ballet lesson and we were in this big room next to that door. So, like always, Kyle and Donovan talked and I was pretty much an accessory/joke to them. I've really been trying to stay fun while they're doing their thing, but I hate when Kyle can be all over me when we're alone or a friend is there and yet when his friends are there I get picked on. And i know they're just playing around but I wasn't in the mood for it today. So then finally Kyle decides he needs to practice the sleeper hold on someone, and I was being very nice and asking Donovan to help him because I was tired and he should take one for the team. But instead he says I don't want to get hurt. So I wait a while for Kyle to forget it and then when I go to give him a hug, he starts play kicking at me, and then he wraps his arm around my neck and I get fightin' at getting him off. And I'm yelling at him to stop cause It was hurting my back and I wasn't enjoying it so he does and shows off to Donovan by saying 'I wasn't even really doing it blah blah, don't be such a p***y.' That got upset and tried to walk to the other side of the room, but he grabs me again and he's really hurting me so i can't breathe. So I'm clawing him off and he lets go and I go over and sit in the far corner behind the piano cause I don't even want to see him right now. And he keeps up talking with Donovan about video games and stuff and that makes me irked cause he doesn't really even care. But he does end up coming over and asking what's wrong. I'm trying to whisper and be polite cause I don't want Donovan to try to hear our hissy fit, but whenever I say something he's like, "WHY DO YOU WANT ME TO GO AWAY? WHY ARE YOU MAD AT ME?" distinctly because I was trying to keep quiet. So I shove him away because I'm tired of this game and he acts like he's all hurt cause he doesn't like me pushing him away. But i kick him out to go play with Donovan and they're all quiet and then we all are kicked out of the studio cause someone is having a private lesson.
So we go out and his mom finishes and she can tell I'm upset so she asks if we're all still friends or did something happen and I sort of lie by saying I'm just really tired. We get in the car and I'm still angry and Kyle keeps trying to hug me and get his arm around him but i keep shaking him off cause I'm not feeling it right now, but i finally give in and lay on his lap cause I'm too tired to fight. He tried to ask me whats wrong and I'm wasn't in the mood for having a talk when it's really quiet in the car and I didn't want to drag in Donovan or his mom so I tell him that we can talk when we get there.
And we don't, of course. He just kinda goes off and plays their water fights and I try to nap while they all have some fun. Of course they rag on me, and keep squirting me with the water guns So I'm like, ******** it, let's go play and I get up and get targeted all the time by people until I'm soaked but I do have some fun while doing it. But then I'm tired and go back to nap. Of course i get soaked by everyone again so i decide to lay out in the sun while Donovan and Kyle play around, and I was cool with letting them do that cause I was too tired to play. So, while I'm laying out there too dry off, I see Kyle with some of the younger boys over looking at me and they have super-soakers so I ask them to Please not squirt me, but they come over and do it anyways and it's COOOLD. So I'm just like, ******** it, let them shoot me. And when they leave Kyle comes over and says he told them not to do it, but I don't really believe him and he starts asking why I'm over there and trying to get me to play. i tell him I've not been very happy with the way he's been acting but to go play. It took awhile but he did finally leave me be and when we did have to go, i was still wet so I have to change near the back of the car and Kyle chooses himself to hold the towel and watch me. So i go as fast as I can so he doesn't get much and he's just ogling me and it's kinda ticking me off. But we get in the car and we go to leave but as we get on the street a lady tells us we have a flat tire so we have to fix that and I'm really no use except to like, hold up the mat so they can get the tire, or hold the manual so I feel kinda useless and upset. /Sakura Complex
Anyways, so we get back in the car and Kyle says "So yeah, if something happens to the spare, you're the first to die. So maybe if you're the first to die, we'll have time to react and get out."
That made me really, really sad, like, I knew he was joking, but that was uncalled for, and even Donovan and his Mom agreed, but he said, "Well if you guys can't take a joke..."
So it's really quiet in the car and they start playing Coldplay, cause they all love it, but I really hate it, so I try to go back to sleep but I can't. When we get back to my house, Kyle gets out of the car even when I tell him to get back in. And we go up to my door and I tell him I'm not happy with the way he's been acting towards me, And I'm frustrated cause I can't take all this, and that I've had to deal with so much of his crap, like him molesting me most of our first months together and never listening to me and picking on me and never being there. and I'm just kinda rambling cause I'm not really in it, I'm kinda feeling like a spectator. So he asks for a hug and I tell him no so he just leaves.
Later on at 7, I call back and tell him I'm sorry for snapping but I was really upset. He says I take thing too seriously, and rambles on about how his dad taught him not to be by yelling at him and blah blah. He just keeps kinda cutting me off to go with his own philosophical views like I'm stupid or something. I tell him that stop cutting me off, and that I'm sick of how he treats me when his friends are around. he again says, I'm over reacting. So he finally says we should have a break, and he'll call me when he's ready to talk because he's so upset right now. D:
You guys, what do you think? I don't really think I'm over reacting, well duh, cause I'm not gonna not back myself up, but I think I'm just tired of his crap. I mean, he's come a long way from just grabbing my chest whenever he pleased and ignoring me totally when I was trying to get his attention away from Donovan, but still, he has a lot of s**t to work on. I'm getting frustrated. he's getting upset. It pretty much looks like we're going to break up. I really don't want to, because for all my bitching, I do love him. And he has helped me a lot and has been very sweet to me, but the other side... is just becoming a bit much. A lot of my other friends have told me from what they've heard they would just dump the poor b*****d a long time ago. Actually, a lot of my friends don't like him, so they've been ignoring me in turn, which has really taken a stress on our relationship.
I want a happy ending too.
Discuss.
Ps. I must sound like a retard-valley girl from my typing. D:
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:39 am
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 11:23 am
Treat him like Haruhi would treat Kyon! Beat his a**! scream
I don't know about dumping him, just give him a good beating and maybe he'll get back in line.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 2:44 pm
Can somebody sort me out a tl;dr?
Not to be rude, but I'm on the phone.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:20 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 3:55 pm
Gut punch and tell him to ******** off.
The equivilant of "I'm breaking up with you" the right way.
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 7:32 pm
Adrian Cosette Can somebody sort me out a tl;dr?
Not to be rude, but I'm on the phone. Try reading it when you aren't?
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Posted: Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:29 pm
From what you say it seems to me that he has little respect for you. I know you have feelings for him but it really looks like an unhealthy relationship. If I were you I'd make the break permanent, and find a boy who'll treat you right. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 12:36 am
Alright now that i am sober ....er srt of and have a full understanding i can tell you this guys(AND GIRLS) are jackasses around thier friends it's just typical and molesting you was just wrong.. take a break and find a total sweetheart and see what happens then =D
i wish i could give you a hug =[
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 2:49 pm
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Posted: Mon Jul 07, 2008 9:13 pm
Have sex with his best friend.
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 7:19 am
Spit in his breakfast. D:
And yeah, tell him to shape up and ******** off and get back to you when he isn't such a selfish little p***k.
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 9:51 pm
Sabbycak3s Have sex with his best friend. Sounds like bad advice to me...
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Posted: Tue Jul 08, 2008 10:52 pm
H3lblad3 Sabbycak3s Have sex with his best friend. Sounds like bad advice to me... No way. If that's not a huge "******** YOU" then I don't know what is.
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:22 pm
Sabbycak3s H3lblad3 Sabbycak3s Have sex with his best friend. Sounds like bad advice to me... No way. If that's not a huge "******** YOU" then I don't know what is. Maybe she's not ready to let the eel into the cave, hmm?
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